Essential Dating Tips for Guys: THE SECRET DARK SIDE OF WOMEN
This article might get me in some DEEP trouble…
In fact, the last time I exposed something like this in my dating tips for guys, I got a LOT of hate mail from some women who didn’t like that I was telling tales “out of school.”
But the funny thing is that there were just as many women who wrote in and thanked me for exposing these secrets.
Because it’s something they WANT men to know about. AND to help guys stop making a BIG mistake because of their misinformation.
I’m going to expose some deep dark secrets of women here that I want you to know about. This isn’t theory or idle speculation.
It’s the real deal. No hype.
Way back in 2001, when I first started giving dating tips for guys, I made it my priority to give guys the Truth about women and dating. Even if it meant that I was being “politically incorrect.”
After all, it’s that political “correctness” that stops guys from getting the REAL information out there about this topic.
Mostly because the reality of how our emotions work and how attraction is created is not something we like to think is out of our ‘rational’ control.
Well, you wanted to learn some juicy stuff about women, didn’t you?
Let’s get into it…
Essential Dating Tips for Guys: THE SECRET DARK SIDE OF WOMEN
SECRET #1: Women LOVE sex.
Yes, I know you probably think that women aren’t all that into doing the dirty with you, but that’s a false assumption.
You see, we men believe that because we put it out there and pursue “it,” and women only seem to protect “it,” we are the ones that enjoy it more.
Not so, grasshopper.
If you’ve ever watched a woman in the throes of ecstasy, you’ll notice that she gets everything stronger, longer, deeper, and … well, MORE.
Sorry, guys. When a woman gets that motor started, she’s unbelievable.
Women have quite a bit more of their anatomy dedicated to this, and not to mention that their pleasure is felt mostly through their brain circuits wired for this, we only have a small tremor compared to their 7.9 on the Richter scale.
The key here is to realize that even though she wants “it” at least as much, she is also hard-wired to not just give it away. One mistake on her part and she’s got a 9-month body roommate that will take another 18 years of her life.
So women have evolved to be very careful about their choice in guys.
They simply have a better conscious control over their coupling than guys do, and we mistake that to mean that they are “frigid” or uninterested in physical pleasure.
SECRET #2: Women are NOT angels. And they are suffocating under the weight of this social expectation.
The common view in society is that girls are “sugar and spice” and everything nice, while boys are “snips and snails and puppy dog tails.”
Get the feeling we got the short end of the stick on this one?
The social opinion has always been that women protect their image and their s*exuality as a means to their power over men.
The reality is something quite different.
Women can be just as ruthless, mean and vindictive as men.
I’m not going to get political on you here, but you do need to know that this image of women as pure and clean as the driven snow is something that many women tire of and long for escape from.
Next Halloween, take a look at the choices that women have in costumes. They’re either really slutty, or really proper.
But which costumes do you see women enjoying wearing the most?
The Naughty Girls. That’s right.
The more you can show a woman that you are aware of this double-standard, that you know better, and you can liberate her from it, the happier she will be.
SECRET #3: Women cheat… A LOT.
This is one that most women are going to be writing in (I know I’ve got some spies on my mailing list) and screaming at me about.
But the reality is that even though you hear about men being the “dogs,” and that we will just jump in bed with a hot woman at the first opportunity…
The reality is that women HAVE all that opportunity available to them all the time. They don’t have to work at it.
If a woman wants to get a little piece of “strange” for herself, it’s not hard.
And even though women have the social stigma of being a “slut,” they know that they are sexual creatures, and they have needs just like guys do.
And if that guy isn’t doing it for her, she WILL get her satisfaction.
You’ll hear a lot of rationalization, and she might even believe some of the stuff she tells herself, but she’s just as vulnerable to her desires as we are.
The fact is that women are just much better at keeping it a secret than we are. After all, it can be an ego boost to brag with the guys, but women want to maintain that “angelic” image.
Now, I’m not coming down on women here. In the grand scheme of things, I don’t believe that men are any more or less good than women are.
It’s important that you don’t get a bunch of smoke blown around about what the TRUTH is on this, too.
SECRET #4: Women want you to approach them.
This one is the one that kicks my butt every time. You see, most guys don’t believe this, and a lot of guys don’t WANT to believe it.
First of all, I have conducted surveys of women, as well as spoken to women in just about every situation imaginable, and there is a big misunderstanding here about what women want.
This is what guys assume:
“If I see an attractive woman when I’m out during the day, I want to meet her. But I’m pretty sure she’s busy, and I’ll just be a bother to her. She’s obviously doing stuff and in a hurry. I don’t want to annoy her.”
The problem here comes when we make the assumption without VALIDATING it. We never check in to see if it’s real.
Most guys will not approach because of this belief.
And the one guy in a thousand that DOES approach her goes in with this belief in his head, and his approach is weak and half-hearted. He doesn’t carry himself with any confidence.
Ask yourself: Do you believe that women are bothered when men approach and talk to them?
It might be time for you to re-examine that belief and see if it really serves you.
The reality is quite different.
I hope that these small “insider tips” helped you with your understanding of women in some way.
Again, most guys have no idea of these truths, or even how they were fooled into their erroneous beliefs in the first place.
Use this information as confidence and more bullets in your holster for talking to women and helping them experience the joy of your company.
It’s when a man comes from these understandings that he comes across as truly sexy to a woman.
