Places to Meet Women
A guest article today from Josh on the topic of…
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Places to meet women
A common excuse from guys for not having the women they want in their life is to claim that they don’t know where to go to meet women. The most common place to meet people is at a bar (duh).
I find it rather funny that so many people claim that they can’t meet high quality mates in bars. After all you are there too, right?! But that shouldn’t be the sole place to meet women and friends; bars are the easiest because so many people go there – and while they are out, they’re looking to be social and have fun. I don’t even drink that much, and I still enjoy meeting women in bars.
Now that I’ve dispelled the opinion that no quality people can be found at bars, where do I go to meet women?
The answer is easy: OUTSIDE MY HOME. I simply walk out the door and there’s a whole world of people there just waiting to meet me. I’ve met women at the train stop, on the bus, at Target, at a coffee shop, even when I’m in line at the DMV. The list goes on. I don’t go anywhere special to ‘meet’ women; I just live fully.
The notion of going to certain places to meet women is symptomatic of a larger issue. When a guy is asking where to go, the underlying problem is that he is too short-sighted on the symptom, which is very erroneous. Guys should be going out just meeting everyone, half of which will be women. Take a step back and see the big picture.
But let’s say you still aren’t buying in to the notion that everywhere outside of your apt/home/bedroom, there are people literally waiting to meet you. The question then to ask is “What are my interests?” Even if you’re a World of Warcraft junkie, you can still go to a LAN party to meet people, albeit probably not many women. But even the guys you meet have friends of the female persuasion.
Comics are your interest? Go to a comic convention or comic shops. Go read your comics someplace outside of your living room and you’re sure to notice someone taking interest in what you are doing. The answer to the underlying problem is that you are doing what you enjoy doing – and people, especially women, love to see the passion for it! I think most guys would be surprised that women enjoy many of the “geeky” things that guys like.
I read a recent statistic that puts as many women online playing video games as men.
Meet-up Group: Try on this idea – a bunch of people looking to enjoy their favorite activity with other, like-minded people. I joined a meet-up group for motorcyclists and ended up with 25 other people. Enjoy foosball, tennis, table tennis or maybe even something outside the volley sports? There are sure to be other people with the exact same interests.
`. This spring I started running 5k’s and met several people just by picking up running. This applies to darts, bowling, pool, bocce ball and virtually ANYTHING.
The bottom line is that guys just have to put themselves out there. I noticed when I offer myself to the fullest extent, I meet an insane amount of people, again half of them women.
You can put yourself ‘out there’ in two ways: doing the things you already love to do, or trying something new. Now, get out there and offer women the opportunity to meet you!
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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:
Here’s a crazy idea for all you guys with a real set of balls:
Hold a “date my ex” party. Invite 3 of your ex girlfriends (that you’re still on speaking terms with) – and introduce them to your friends.
Just because she didn’t work out for you doesn’t mean she won’t for someone else.
Oh, if you’re still attracted to your ex, don’t invite her. I’d think this was obvious, but you never know.
Thanks, Josh…
