Q & A with Carlos: Dating Advice for Men
QUESTION: How do you interpret a woman’s illogical behavior…?
Hey Carlos… How are you my friend?
I’ve got a question for you.
Why would a 22 year old chick make a Myspace page and put up a bunch of hot half naked pics of herself and put in her profile she is single and only looking for friends…?
I just don’t get it. What’s the point?
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CARLOS ANSWERS:
Yes, it is a little strange that a woman would present this kind of mixed message.
But haven’t you ever been with a woman who was wearing a blouse that shows off her cleavage, and then she gets disgusted when a guy stares at her boobs?
Hmmm….
There are a couple reasons for this mixed message for you guys that might not be familiar with this:
REASON 1) This is a covert link to some kind of porn scam.
Porn is in every corner of the Internet. It’s hiding in every little crack and crevice. Watch out for it and avoid it. This chick is probably luring guys into some kind of webcam porn thing.
2) She’s a typical woman in that she says one thing with her mouth, and another with her actions.
TRUST ONLY HER ACTIONS!
If you’ve read my Dating Black Book, you’ll know the foundations of attraction with women.
One of the important psychological rules is that women are not LOGICAL!
Not even men are as logical as they’d like to think. We all are run by our EMOTIONS.
So the first mistake is to do anything but watch her actions. That will tell you all you need to know about her intent and what she’s really thinking.
3) She’s a little neurotic.
Some women have been programmed by society (and in conflict with the sexual image that they are not comfortable with due to poor development) such that they will display themselves sexually on the outside with the hope of just luring in attention that will make them feel better about what’s inside.
They tend toward very low self-esteem.
Now my feeling is that you’re making the mistake that a lot of guys make which is that of thinking that what you see on the surface is the whole story. It isn’t.
In fact, it’s only a TINY fraction of the real deal.
The mixed message you’re trying to interpret is the one that most guys are confused by when a woman dresses all sexy and says yes to a date, and then when he gets to the end of the evening she just pecks him on the cheek, tells him she had a “wonderful” time, and she thinks that you should just be friends.
AHHHHHGGGH!
That feeling sucks.
A 22 year old girl is probably not completely aware of what she wants, and is doing her best to juggle media programming, Hollywood and TV programming, and the social programming of her friends.
You can see that she’s inherited a lot of programming.
Don’t buy into the image.
Instead, understand the reality.
You can start to learn about it here, in my e-book. You can download the Dating Black Book HERE…
