You don’t need money…

QUESTION FROM A READER:

I used to make 10,000 a month. Now I make $10 an hour. It’s hard to get hired as a 50+ ex-computer programmer. How can I date women anywhere near my former level?

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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:

You don’t need to take women out on $100+ dates, my friend.

That’s the whole point of what I teach…

The answer to all your troubles lies in one question you need to ask yourself:
“How can I add more value to the world around me?”

When you ask yourself this question about your employment situation, you’ll realize more success.

(Hint: You might want to outsource yourself with an online service like Elance.com, and you don’t need to broadcast your age or your PERCEIVED shortcomings.)

When you apply this question to the world of women, you’ll realize that a man’s value in attracting a woman is NOT in his income level.

I personally make it a point to NOT spend money (in any big way) on the first 3 to 4 dates.

1) I don’t want a gold digger. This is an effective screening mechanism.

2) I can focus on what really matters: Whether she’s good enough for me and meets my criteria.

3) I will come up with genuinely FUN things to do – which is what ultimately attracts women initially.

Think outside the box, my friends… your success is waiting just beyond your currently limiting belief!