30 Days To Success With Women – Day 1

Welcome to your first installment of the 30 days of success with women. I’m going to guide you through each day’s exercise so that you get maximum benefit from this program.

Now, I won’t just stop at day 30 with you, either. We’ll keep adding on to your skills above and beyond that day, but for now your goal is simply to increase your ability and confidence with women by TEN times what it is right now. That means ten times more of everything that matters – meeting women, dating women, physical escalation…

You get the point!

So let’s get started.

Today’s exercise is really pretty simple. We’re going to do a quick inventory of your “Exposure Ratio.”

Your Exposure Ratio is simply a way of describing the possibility of you encountering a woman on any given day. In order to meet and date women, you have to be in a high exposure frame of mind – and lifestyle.

I want you to put together a list of the top 10 places you frequent during the course of a week. Basically, any place outside your home or apartment.

Here are some examples from my own life:

– Safeway (grocery store)
– Starbucks (coffee shop)
– Best Buy (I spend too much time here 🙂
– Dojo
– Gas station
– Target
– The bank
– Movie theater
– Baja Fresh (restaurant)
– Sushi restaurant

Okay, now with your list, you want to categorize each on a scale from 1 to 10.

1 is LOW population of women. (Think: Comic Book store) and you’re there only a few minutes each week.
5 is an equal mix of men and women, and in fairly decent numbers – and you’re there at least an hour each week.
10 is totally PACKED with women. (Think: Bar.) And you’re there at least 2+ hours each week.

Now add up all the scores. If your score is lower than 50, you have to do some work.

Your goal is to escalate that score into the 80 to 90 range. At least for short bursts.

You have to increase both the TIME and the QUALITY of the places you go each week to start increasing that Exposure Ratio.

You may have to substitute some time you normally spend in “comfortable” but low Exposure environments so that you can get the HIGH Exposure you need to start increasing your potential to meet women.

Mind you, you don’t have to be actively approaching in these places. We’ll build into that soon enough. For now, we just have to have a score – a quantifiable level of your current Exposure Ratio.

I’ll be back tomorrow with your next assignment.

Stay Alpha,

Carlos Xuma