30 Days To Success With Women – Day 10
MISSION: RITUAL
Today’s mission is short and sweet – but very powerful!
I want you to create a list of things you will do before going out (anywhere, not just to meet women) that will put you in the strongest frame of mind and confidence.
Here’s a short outline of what you want to be sure to include:
- Something related to grooming (shower, shave, manicure, skin care, brush/floss, style your hair, etc.)
- Something related to meditation or relaxation – AND reciting an anthem or affirmation to get you feeling good about yourself
- Something related to music – play something that motivates you and/or gives you confidence
- Something related to your overall image – put on clean, stylish, well-fitting clothing
- Put on some light cologne
You can add things as needed, but you want to make it a compact routine of no more than a half-hour of preparation. This is something you will do every time you go out, even if only a compact or “express” version.
Why a routine?
Because the human mind LOVES routines. They’re easy to follow, and they also create a mental pattern that gets you to a mental state quickly and effectively.
Maybe you’ve heard of NLP? Well, the science of it is sound, and it’s basically the way to program your mind using the connections and associations you already have in you now.
We’re performing something called “anchoring,” which is a way of conditioning yourself to experience an emotional state simply by establishing a trigger.
Also, we’re sending a message to your subconscious mind: “I’m worth the effort.”
Complete your list of items for this ritual, and then I want you to put it on a 3×5 index card that you can keep in your bathroom. You don’t have to stick it up in public view, but you do have to follow it every time you leave the house.
You can modify it along the way, but once you find a pattern that works for you, you’re going to stick to it.
This is conditioning for success.
– Carlos Xuma
