Daygame and Approaching Women
Hey, I’ve been reading a lot of the mail you guys are sending in,
and the great questions you’ve got about Real Alpha Daygame.
But I also want to take this opportunity to point a couple of
things out to the guys that might have a little trouble with this
concept of “Daygame.”
What really IS “Daygame?”
Very simply it’s meeting women anywhere.
ANYWHERE.
Let me try that again:
A-N-Y-W-H-E-R-E!
You see, bars and clubs seem to be all that guys think of when they
think about meeting women. But there is a wide and undiscovered
country out there where we are able to meet women:
– in the park
– at a friend’s party
– at a business event
– at the gym
– in a coffee shop
– at a cocktail party
– at a library or bookstore…
Literally there is an infinite number of places out there to meet
women that we’re not using right now.
It’s not just about walking up and talking to women cold on the
street.
You see, I’ve talked to a lot of guys who have very strong beliefs
about meeting women in everyday places. They seem to be scared to
death of it because the woman will be guarded… cautious…
After all, you’re a stranger!
Guys, you don’t have to have anyone “approve” of where you meet a
woman.
You don’t need to meet a woman in certain designated areas.
Regardless of what we think women MIGHT be thinking about it.
And one of the biggest mistakes is trying to think FOR a woman.
When you try and get into her head, you’ll probably get it wrong.
Whenever I meet couples, I ask them how they met. The woman
tends to romanticize the first meeting, but the guy always tells
the facts.
Most of them met at a store, or in a gym, or in places where the
guy simply sucked it up and did the unthinkable…
He approached her!
In fact, I did a certain hidden camera video just a couple weeks
ago. I met a woman in the Apple Store and we had a GREAT
conversation and connection.
Last night, after 2 weeks, SHE CALLED ME.
I haven’t initiated any contact since then, but she called me up
and left a 2 minute message.
How cool is THAT?
And, honestly, it wasn’t a very spectacular approach. I just
started talking with her for no reason. We were standing at
the computers just checking out the MacBooks.
She was a stranger.
Now she’s a possibility for me. One that I would never have had if
I had let the thought: “She doesn’t know me – she’s going to be
scared of me” get into my head.
Repeat after me:
ALL limitations are self-imposed!
Stay tuned…
I’ve got more great stuff coming up…
Your Day-walker friend,
Carlos Xuma
