Author: Carlos Xuma

Q&A: Carlos Answers With A Revelation

Q&A: Carlos Answers With A Revelation

Question from a “confused” reader:

Carlos, I just got your Dating Black Book and I wish I would have gotten it a week earlier.

I very confused by this fun and pretty girl. We met at a party, I laid low for a few days, then asked her to come with me to a fashion show (she’s a print model so I knew she would come).

The date went well and we had dinner after the show, she asked all the questions that showed she was interested in me (my family, background, goals, etc). We made out, got way too drunk, then I took her back to her place and I kissed her good night, and told her I wanted to come in, but I never do that on the first date, she looked confused but relieved at the same time. Clearly that doesn’t happen to her often.