Q & A with Carlos : Scarcity thinking..
I dated a girl for just over a month. She ended our relationship a little less than a week ago due to the fact that over our winter break from college, she was stressed out with working 2 jobs (she just moved into a new apartment) and wanted to focus on school for a few weeks. The words she used were “I think we should take a break,” and then she went into the aforementioned work/school ordeal. I completely understand, and then she told me that “it’s not permanent.”
A little less than a week later, I still want to be with this girl. I’m not in love with her or anything, I’m just bummed out that we couldn’t continue this journey — I think this girl is awesome, and we have a lot in common, but at the same time I’m kind of confused as to how she feels about me, but don’t know how, or if, I should approach her about it for fear of ruining our
