“Priming Her Pump” – Getting women to think about you sexually

We’ve got a guest article for you today from our man with the plan,
Leonardo…

Take it away, Leo:

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Priming A Woman For Sex

If you really want to increase your sex appeal with a woman and increase your chances of having sex with her, just follow this scientifically proven method that will increase your success rate exponentially.

Since men are more visual when it comes to sex – all women have to do is look and act sexy in order for a man to get turned on and think she’s sexy. You look at a woman’s naked body and you immediately get aroused.

Not so for most women.  They enjoy looking at a fit man’s naked body, but in most cases, it really doesn’t do a lot to get them wet.  They get aroused by looking at pictures or watching people having sex, or reading about romance leading to sex; but not just by a man’s naked body alone.

If you want her to think you’re sexy and turned on by you, you can get her aroused first.  Then you will seem very sexy to her.

A woman’s sexually aroused frame of mind will make you seem much more attractive plus it will serve to make her more sexually appealing to you because of her attitude towards you.

Elaine Walster in her book “A New Look At Love” writes: “How women respond to that new man or men we meet at a party, at work or in our neighborhood depends in part on how appealing that person would normally be to us, as well as on how sexually turned on (or turned off) we happen to be at the time we meet.

She describes a study where researchers invited two groups of men and women to view some slides. One group of men and women were asked to rate nineteen erotic slides showing young men and women in almost every combination, position and sexual activity imaginable. Of course, they reported that the slides were very arousing.

The other group of men and women were shown geometric figures which, needless to say, were not very arousing. They rated the slides and left to participate in a second (supposedly unrelated) project.

The second (supposedly) unrelated appointment was to fill out questionnaires. Each member of both groups was introduced to a work partners and they began filling out the questionnaires together. Unknown to them, the experimenter filmed the session.

The researchers discovered that the group who had been shown the sex slides behaved much more erotically to members of the opposite sex than did the group who had been shown the geometric figures. For example, they tended to gaze more frequently at the other person since they were experiencing the after twinges of sexual arousal.

Duh!  I didn’t think they  really needed a scientific experiment to determine this – but of course the did it and it confirmed what everyone was thinking all along anyway.

Of course there are many factors involved for women to think about sex including their menstrual cycle – they appear to get more easily aroused when they are ovulating – but in most cases those events are not always under our control.

Of course you can do a little reconnaissance and plan your date accordingly, but there’s an easier way to go about it.  Or maybe you can do both.

First of all, you have to realize that  men are genetically programmed to pursue quantity since they can procreate 5 times a day.  A woman can only procreate every 9 months, so she is wired to be selective about whom she chooses to mate with.

Remember, women have been programmed for tens of thousands of years to be selective, and reliable birth control has only been around for about 50 years.  However, it seems that women are quickly becoming more and more sexually liberated.

I think one of the most difficult things for men to grasp is the fact that women want sex just as badly as men do – if not more. Their capacity to enjoy it far exceeds ours – however their programming makes it more difficult for them to be more open and aggressive about it – but times are rapidly changing.

Just realizing this concept should give shy men more permission to make the move.  Too many guys wait too long to get intimate and then they fall into “the friend zone” and it then becomes extremely difficult to ever have sex with her.

Since this chapter is about priming her to seeing you as being sexier, there is a way you can do this besides timing her menstrual cycle. I recently read an article that showed a dozen non x rated mainstream movies that make women horny.  They are supposed to make her panties wet and have her gazing at you like Chris Farley looking at a double cheeseburger (God rest his soul.)

• Vicky Christina Barcelona (2008)
• Twilight (2008)
• Mr. & Mrs. Smith (2005)
• Secretary (2002)
• The Dreamers (2003)
• The Girl Next Door (2004)
• Original Sin (2001)
• Swept Away (2002)
• Unfaithful (2002)
• Young Adam (2003)
• Before Sunrise (1995) and Before Sunset (2004)
• Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)

Check out one of these movies and invite her over to  your place to watch them.  It will not only increase your sex appeal but the odds of you getting laid exponentially.

Another tip –

Current research suggests that more and more women are also turning to the internet for porn, but currently the biggest increase for women looking for erotica is reading about it.  Why do you think 50 Shades of Gray is a number 1 seller?

It’s porn using words.  It used to be romance novels for women, but now the biggest selling novels are just romance novels on steroids – x-rated steroids.

If your girlfriend or girlfriend to be doesn’t already have it – buy her 50 Shades of Gray and ask her out after she’s read a few chapters. Wear your good underwear because they might be coming off in her bedroom.

Stay Alpha…!

– Leonardo Amorado