Is She Only After Your Money?
Are you in a relationship or dating someone you really like? And you’re feeling like you want to jump in…
You really think she’s a cool chick, and you want to TRUST her.
There’s only ONE thing…you’ve been having these nagging doubts. It seems SHE wants you for what you can afford to give her, rather than, be with you FOR YOU.
But, you’re not really sure…and you don’t want to mess things up with her if you’re wrong.
What you just want is an assurance… that she feels the same way you do. You don’t want to be one of those guys who – the minute they ran out of cash – their girlfriends ran out too.
Here are some CLEAR signs that she’s in it for your money …
She’s A Gold Digger – Sign #1: She ALWAYS expects you to pay
You’ve always paid for dinners, gifts, shopping…everything! You pay for everything she needs and wants.
And you let it because you’re thinking it’s her way of surrendering herself to you. Or it’s simply your job as a man to provide for her every whim.
WRONG.
If you’ve dated a girl a couple times… a girl who’s independent and thinking of a long-term relationship with you, will at least TRY to pay for some of the things you do together. The more grateful she is to have you, the more she will try!
It doesn’t have to be HUGE. She can cook for you, or give you massages.
Anything that says…”Hey, I just don’t want to take and take…I’m here to show you, I can give too”.
If you’re not getting that, she’s a taker, not a giver.
She’s A Gold Digger – Sign #2: She feels entitled to a comfortable life.
Some women move around like they’re entitled to a good life… like it’s supposed to be handed to them on a golden platter.
Think of Paris Hilton, the Playboy bunnies – they have an expensive lifestyle. If you see her expecting the same from you…it’s a clear sign she has dollar signs for pupils.
Try saying NO for a change. When she asked you to pay something, tell her you didn’t get a chance to go by the ATM. See how gracefully (and eagerly) she volunteers. You’ll learn a lot about her from this one small test.
Or when she recommends an expensive restaurant (again), tell her you can’t afford it and suggest an inexpensive one.
See what her reaction is…if she’s in it for MONEY, she’ll give you grief and drama, or won’t go out with you.
If she’s in it FOR YOU, she’ll smile and still go out with you. She’ll say… “Anywhere is okay as long as we’re together”.
She’s A Gold Digger – Sign #3: She doesn’t have career aspirations
If your woman doesn’t have a job and just stays at home or worst…she’s still staying with her parents…
Think twice.
Meaning, would you want to be with a woman whose needs and wants depend COMPLETELY on you?
She doesn’t have to be a high-powered executive or in the same financial status as you. You just want her to be able to stand on her own and have that level of maturity in life as you do.
If the woman you’re into has more than one – or all of these signs I’ve talked about – She’s probably just in it for your money.
Staying with her or not…it’s all up to you. But you know what you’re in for if you do – and you’ll know that YOU chose it. It didn’t just “‘happen” to you.
Remember, if you look into the future…do you want that kind of woman with you? Will she be there for you through good and bad?
Will you have her loyalty?
Her trust?
Or would you rather have a woman that will stand by you no matter what?
Life is hard as it is…and you don’t want to be with someone that will make it even more challenging.
If you’d like to know how to spot the other danger signals in women, then I suggest you look at this:
Stay Alpha…
– Carlos Xuma
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