How To Date A Single Mom
If you’ve got your eyes on the local hottie mom – AKA: MILF – be prepared! Women with kids present a whole new challenge in the dating scene.
If you think you know a lot about women now that you’ve been with a few and studied my programs on what makes them attracted to you – well, you still have a few more things to learn. Single moms are on a slightly different playing field.
It’s not because they’re choosy or difficult – or even hard to please. It’s that complication of having to adjust to a “third party” – And that addition is her kid.
You’re not competing with other men, your MAJOR rival is her kid. And when that kid wants some attention, expect that she’s going to make him or her the priority. It’s not easy for a lot of guys to deal with this.
Are you prepared to place SECOND in her life? At least for the short term?
Imagine having a romantic evening, and then her kid comes along wanting her attention, pretty much ruining your planned date. And all she could do is mouth the words “I’m so sorry.” And you might even be out to dry for sex on occasion too.
And, even if you wanted to get pissed – all you can do is to let it go and wait.
That’s pretty much a realistic scenario of what it’s going to be like when you’re with her.
You’ll need to have a lot of PATIENCE – when she can’t make it to your date. When she needs to leave you because of an “emergency” or when she’s NOT responding to your games, too.
If she senses, you’re more of a trouble than a “breathe of fresh air”. She’ll probably drop you.
You might get discouraged with all these limitations, but, single moms are actually the world’s BEST kept secret. Here’s why…
There are some advantages. A guy that stays in the game is going to earn a lot of points with her, and possibly some crazy sexy nights. She’ll be eager to please, because she knows that having a child that is not yours is a bit of a liability for her.
There will be less drama…
Less of the mind games and less of the annoying stuff.
What you see is what you get. She won’t be all clingy and needy to you because…her attention is NOT focus just on you. So, you’re free to do as you please.
And that might work for you instead of having to date someone who expects a lot from you.
Single moms went through a lot, and very often that experience equals maturity, which will come in handy when you’re trying to still figure out what you want in a relationship.
Less pressure…
Since she has a kid already, that awkward discussion of “where is this going?”, “when are we getting married”, “when will we have kids” will be turned down to a VERY low volume. Meaning, she won’t have those pressures to lay on you – and the push for commitment will be a lot lower in intensity.
She went through that phase. And right now, she’s probably just trying to live life and make the most of what she has – and ofcourse, give the best childhood to her kid.
She’s a strong woman…
We all crave a woman who’s nurturing, loyal and can support us whatever happens. Dating single moms, you’ll have a preview of what she’s capable of – and the quality of her character.
No need to feel through her defenses, if she’s the strong woman you’re looking for. Getting through what she went through is a testament to how solid her will is.
She’s the type of woman you can honor and respect.
And, if that’s the kind of woman you want to have in your life, then you’ll be lucky enough to have found one.
Stay Alpha,
– Carlos Xuma
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