Why do women dig older men?
Some guys know this, some don’t. But older guys are actually a hot property for women.
(Note: I did not say “girls” – like between the age of 18 and 22 or so. These are girls who genuinely believe in the Cyndi Lauper tune, “girls just wanna have fun.”)
But you might also wonder WHY women dig older guys…
To answer this, you need to understand these two basic things that women look for in a man:
#1 – Security, and #2 – Stability
You might have heard this a lot – A man’s job is to be a good provider. That means you need to be financially prepared. And you can do that by having a stable job that provides you a steady source of income. (You don’t have to be rich, by the way.)
Why?
Women want security – this need can only be met if the guy is secure enough physically, emotionally, mentally and financially.
Remember this, when you’re in an ongoing relationship with a woman, she’ll probably want the relationship to transcend to a deeper commitment, which is marriage.
That’s why most women prefer older men. Here are more reasons why women dig older men:
Why women dig older guys – Reason # 1: He’s mature.
Older men have “been there and than that”. They no longer need to act like idiots just to pick up women. They don’t feel the need to hop from bar to bar just to look for women they can have quick fun with.
They’re more laid back and provide a nurturing environment, which women like because it’s aligned with their need to have a stable family life.
As they say, with age comes experience, and older guys have much more experience under their belt – and that makes them more forgiving when younger women create mistakes. (Which they always do…)
That’ll make her feel secure that he can and will handle their relationship – and not the other way around.
He will be her “rock”, someone she can always depend on.
Why women dig older men – Reason # 2: He’s established.
Older guys have already made financial mistakes in their lives. Their experiences led them to be wiser with their decisions in life – as well as with money and other areas.
An older guy doesn’t live with his parents – or at least he better not. He’s independent, responsible and strongly dependable.
Their priorities are more solid, because they’re more mature and know the “ways of the world”. They have their own house, have a good career and are financially capable of supporting a family. All of which women are attracted to.
A well established man is someone she can respect and feel secure about her future.
Why women dig older men – Reason # 3: He’s a gentleman.
Older guys respects women, he’ll treat her like a queen, which all women grew up to believe is how it should be. He understands basic chivalry and how to bring out the feminine in her.
He’ll do things like, open the door for her, pull out her chair when she sits down…You might find these things corny but, to a woman, it makes her feel special.
Want to be a gentleman? Here are a few tips on how to become one.
1. Look presentable – have a good physical hygiene, wear clean clothes, shave and put on a good smelling perfume. Grooming is essential.
2. Have good manners – refrain from swearing or getting into arguments or fights, be polite, behave and act like the guy you want her to see.
3. Be good to other people – treat others with kindness at all times, help out when you see someone in need. And always treat the wait staff where you go well. She’s watching!
4. Be considerate – be sensitive about other people’s opinions and feelings. Especially hers.
5. Be respectful – respect everyone you met, whatever his/her social status is. This works with #3, because how you treat the people that you don’t have to treat well tells her volumes about your character.
There’s a lot to learn about older guys if you’re open to see it instead of focusing on the double standard that it presents. And you can also drop that feeling of “I’m a creepy old dude” when you approach women.
Especially when you know that you’re exactly what they’re looking for.
A cool part of this is, if you’re young but you follow the example and behavior of an “older guy” – you’ll have it all!
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