This really depresses me…
I’m really depressed right now, and I need to tell you why.
I’ve been advising guys on how to attract and get the woman they want for… wow, over 10 years now.
Before I did this online, I studied the art of attraction for about 5 or 6 years.
So I’ve got a teeny tiny bit of understanding on the topic. 😉
AND I’ve gotten thousands of emails and questions from guys over the years.
One that I get ALL the time has a very common theme.
It goes like this:
– I read your stuff and it makes total sense
– BUT…
– I don’t think it works on women *where I’m from…*
(as if the nature of women REALLY changes when you cross state – or even country lines. HINT: It doesn’t.)
– All my guy friends get women all the time, but not me…
– Those guys are good looking, and that’s why they get women. ‘Cause women want looks.
– So you’re wrong, Carlos!
This is great logic if you’re in a third grade class on why Joanie loves Charlie on some television show, but it’s completely empty of truth in the real world.
The biggest myth in this chain of reasoning is this:
Women only want looks.
This is the biggest misinterpretation that men make when it comes to women, and this limiting belief can HAUNT him to his first divorce, next marriage, child support payments, divorce, THIRD marriage, and eventual grave.
Let me start out by saying this:
Do looks matter?
OF COURSE THEY DO!
All things being equal, looks will get your foot in the door pretty quick.
But are looks ALL that matter?
NO!
Because she might be interested for a few minutes based on that, but once you open your mouth, you better show her the signals she needs to feel that gut-level attraction.
It’s the same thing that happens to you when you meet a cute girl with a voice like a cackling witch. You WANT to like her, but you’re so turned off by it that you just can’t feel turned on.
You see, most men assume that women think JUST like guys do.
We think that looks are important to women because they’re important to us.
Looks are important to men because we can evaluate a woman for all we need based on some purely visual features.
Nice boobs, butt, all that.
We only need to find a woman attractive physically in order to want to “mate” with her.
This is because men have never really had to stick around and raise any accidental babies may have created.
Well, at least before the 20th century.
So there was no real RISK for men.
But for women…!
If she took a chance on a guy and let him into her bed, and there was a baby from that night of fun, then she would have to pay for that mistake for a good 15-18 years.
And she had to hope the guy she had it with would be there to help her raise that bundle of joy.
So women learned to look for other indicators, because being good looking just wasn’t enough.
In fact, it’s the LEAST relevant thing to a woman, because it’s the LEAST likely thing to tell her if he’s going to stick around and do his duty as a man.
So what is it that a woman is looking for?
It’s simple.
She needs to see that you’re BOYFRIEND MATERIAL.
I sometimes call this “being a keeper.” (Because that’s what women usually call it.)
Because, when you’re a “keeper” she will do everything she can to be your girlfriend.
Yes, that even means sleeping with you as fast as she can to “lock you in.”
The trick to getting her to do this is super simple.
You just have to show her that you’ve got GIRLFRIEND MAGNETS.
How do you do that, you ask?
Simple – just go have a look at this special report:
Where I reveal how these magnets really work.
Stay Alpha…!
– Carlos Xuma
PS: I’ll also show you the three big mistakes most guys make that REPEL women and make sure that only fat and ugly chicks find you interesting.
Harsh? Yeah.
But TRUE.
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