5 Signs You’re Ready To Get Hitched
The woman you’ve been with for some time now has been hinting about marriage. And you’re thinking, you’d want to make an “honest woman out of her”, so why not?
But… you’re hesitating…the thought of giving up your single life – and trading it in for a life with ONLY one person makes you think, will it be all worth it?
Before you beat yourself up weighing down the answer to “should I get engaged?”… here are 5 signs that can help you know that you’re actually ready to tie the knot!
Sign You’re Ready To Get Hitched #1: She’s the ONE.
When you know in your heart she’s the ONLY one for you, you’re ready!
This means, you don’t think that you’ll find any other woman as amazing as her. You’re ready to be exclusive with one person for the rest of your life. Of all the women in the world, you know she’s a keeper.
You deeply respect her, she makes you happy – and LIFE is more interesting with her around. She just makes you a better version of yourself.
And, you don’t get tired of waking up every morning and seeing her. When she’s not there you unconsciously look for her. It’s like she just fits into your life naturally.
There’s no explanation. It just IS.
Sign You’re Ready To Get Hitched #2: You find yourself making many long-term plans with her.
When you find yourself thinking of the future, making plans that includes her, that’s a pretty good sign. Like, buying a house, attending your parent’s yearly parties…anything that involves HER still being with you for many years.
You’re thinking out into the future. And if you’re actually planning a future together, that’s how you’ll know you’re ready to commit.
Sign You’re Ready To Get Hitched #3: You’re thinking about having kids with her.
You smile every time the topic of you two having kids comes up – instead of cringing. You like the idea of her as the mother of your little ones…
You picture her taking care of them and having a great time. It just feels good thinking to have that family with her.
Having kids is a huge responsibility, and if you’re seeing her as a fit mother of your kids, that’s a clear sign you’re ready to get engaged.
Sign You’re Ready To Get Hitched #4: You consider each of your families one big family.
She’s well loved by your family and her family loves you too. You both attend family traditions, gatherings and special occasions.
When this happens, that’s a sign that you’re welcoming her to be a part of your family. Being there for her family means you accept them in your life too.
That’s a very important sign. It means merging of two families. If you’re okay with the whole thing, and you think it will work, you’re VERY ready to commit for the long haul.
Sign You’re Ready To Get Hitched #5: You don’t feel like you’re settling.
You love the feeling of experiencing life with her. You actually look forward to the future activities that you two can do together.
You don’t yearn for parties that you used to do all the time. You stopped looking for the next woman to hook up with. You now enjoy most of your time with her.
Life is much more exciting when she’s around. And you don’t have that desire to be with someone else. You always look for her and HER only.
You’re whole lifestyle is so used to her being around that you actually enjoy the routine things that usually make you bored or unhappy.
You’re not resisting her, you’re welcoming her into your life. That means, you’re probably ready to settle down.
If you have most or all these signs, it’s time to consider taking the next big step.
Don’t go into it in fear or reluctance… and make it what you want it to be. The only guys who are unhappy in marriage are the ones that 1) chose poorly – or 2) didn’t go in with their eyes wide open.
Stay Alpha…
– Carlos Xuma
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