5 Ways To Get A Woman In Bed

by Carlos Xuma · Published January 11, 2014 · Updated January 11, 2014

Ok, here we are again on a BIG mystery on How to SEDUCE a woman.

If you’re NOT a rich, famous or good looking guy… you probably think you just have a slightest chance to get a woman in bed.

But is that really so?

Attracting a woman is not intuitive, as you know already. You have to use different strategies, but that doesn’t mean you have to be a manipulative jerk.

(Remember these are not rules “written in stone” and you can follow your instinct first. IF your instincts have been honed!)

If you want to CHANGE YOUR LIFE for the better, here are some basic things you have to consider

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #1: Learn how to LISTEN to her

One of the MOST DESIRABLE characteristics that any woman finds attractive in a man is someone who knows how to listen.

If you’re on the phone throughout the whole date, you’ll end the night without even a goodnight kiss! And it’s unlikely you’ll have a chance to see her ever again.

Women love to talk… a lot! They love guys who can hold a conversation… so KEEP YOUR FOCUS and show a genuine interest in her. But that doesn’t mean you need to get caught up in the emotional crap. Just keep a healthy perspective.

Doesn’t even matter whether the conversation is deep or superficial. Just show her you’re enjoying her company and you’re having an AMAZING time.

AND that you’d be having an amazing time on your own even if she wasn’t there. That’s something that makes a woman pay attention to you as a powerful masculine force. Not distant! Just capable of being happy all on your own.

By doing this, you’ll have that instant CONNECTION and that’s all you need to have her.

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #2: Demonstrate Self-confidence

Lack of self-confidence is unattractive… it is a sign of insecurity, which she’ll find NOT SEXY on any man.

Look, the whole confidence thing is a bit of a game, and it’s not what most guys think it is. You don’t have to be Mr. Macho Braveheart to get her attention. Just don’t act needy!

Control your ego no matter how successful you are. Any woman doesn’t like it when you’re boastful about how good you are in whatever you do. Just show genuine interest in her.

Don’t pretend to be someone you are not… she’ll find out sooner or later and that will ruin any chances you have with her.

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #3: Make her feel like YOUR QUEEN

Make her feel like she’s fascinating to you – in an uncommon way. Forget all your problems, worries, and focus your attention on her. Not in an approval -seeking way, but in a “Hey, what’s this? She’s interesting…

“Compliment her outfit, sense of humor, perfume… NOT her physical appearance. Don’t overdo it! Too much can get annoying, and you won’t sound genuine.

Be a gentleman. Open the car door, pull out her chair when she’s about to sit…You do this and she’ll notice…and YOU will win her.

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #4: Don’t look desperate

It’s an unattractive look for ANY guy to show how desperate he is for sex.

If a woman feels like you see her ONLY as a sex object, say GOODBYE to seeing her next to you in bed.

Why? It’s simple. She doesn’t like to be objectified… just like you don’t like to be objectified on the basis of how deep your wallet is. (Even if we do objectify from instinct, don’t make it obvious.)

Treat her like a human being and you’ll be able to seduce ANY woman you like.

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #5: Broadcast your Passion

Show her what your PASSION is… it could be your work, hobby, or car. Prove that you’re not some shallow guy who just wants sex. Talking to her about things you’re passionate about will make her interested in you.