How To Be at Your Most Alpha

Masculinity is a word that gets thrown around all the time, and not enough guys understand what it’s about – or embrace its true meaning.

Some think having a Porsche or cash to burn is what attracts women, but all this external stuff is just icing on the cake. The qualities that constitute “being a man” helps a guy get those things, but more importantly, they’re also responsible for turning women on.

Now, in a world where traditional gender roles are being challenged, the definition of manliness might be a bit fuzzy for some guys. Families with stay-at-home dads and working moms are a good example of breaking stereotypes.

Men in these situations need to make use of feminine skills like nurturing relationships, caring for others and finding joy in the beauty of life. Women in the workplace on the other hand, need to be competitive, driven and focused – all of which are masculine qualities.

But when it comes to dating however, it’s a whole other ballgame. Even if we’re living in a progressive time like this, you’ll still need those masculine traits to activate a woman’s feminine attraction circuitry.

Here are a few ways to be more manly to women and live a fuller life at the same time:

#1: Be Passionate About Something

Are you a dedicated philanthropist or a hardcore extreme sports enthusiast? Being dedicated to a cause is great because being focused on something that enriches your life automatically makes you an interesting guy.

Also, having a hobby or career you’re genuinely interested in also means building principles and values around it – like integrity, leadership, inner strength, and responsibility. All of this makes for an authentic masculinity that draws women in.

So get busy doing something you honestly care about. No matter what niche you’re in, you’ll always run into someone you can demonstrate your masculine qualities to without looking like you’re trying too hard.

#2: Have Something To Talk About

The other side effect of having a passion is that you can be an expert on a certain field and talk about it. Women are interested in guys who have something interesting to say in an authoritative capacity.

But don’t stop there; you can also branch out and do a little research on other stuff you might find interesting.

Art, sports, music, movies, fantasy books and even stuff like quantum physics are great ways to expand your mind and have a bunch of topics to keep your conversations from going into a dead end.

#3: Brush Up On Your Style

Nothing says to women that you’re a man who has it together than being up to scratch on your looks. Outward appearances aren’t everything, but it does matter to a certain point.

The best way to be masculine is by packaging yourself in a way that’s consistent with your inner attitude. And that means your sense of style and attention to hygiene allow women to take you seriously as an adult.

At a basic level, a woman needs to know she’s dealing with a grown-up who has things under control. And knowing how to dress appropriately and taking care of yourself has a lot to do with that.

If you need a little help in this department, get someone who has a good sense of style and can give you an honest opinion. All it takes is some guidance to get you on your way.

And that’s really what defines being a man: having the discipline, determination and that inner core to live a well-balanced life. Stay on top of this, and not only will you help yourself, you’ll attract women as an afterthought.

By the way, you’ll also want to keep a potential roadblock out of the way before it becomes a problem. T-Bleed is a growing phenomenon that’s causing men to lose their testosterone, along with their masculine essence.

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Stay Alpha…

– Carlos Xuma