I’m in love with my friend’s girlfriend…
You have a friend. He’s your “brother from another mother”. You guys are tight – bonded. You have each other’s back.
Girlfriends can come and go – but, you guys are the constant, stable thing. Loyalty is everything.
Then, one day… he introduces you to his new “girlfriend”. It should be like any other day where you meet his new girl, you say hi. And that’s it!
This time, however, is different…
You’ve heard about “the one” and this girl might be it… for YOU, not him.
Uh oh.
They say “you’ll know when the right girl comes along”, but you don’t really believe in it.
But, now, it’s just so weird. You feel yourself drawn to her – intrigued by her. You’re aware of her every movement, you find yourself wanting to get to know her…
And, before you can STOP yourself, you’ve FALLEN for her – that ONE girl that you are NOT supposed to fall for. It’s in the BRO code somewhere – “Thou shall NOT covet thy friend’s girlfriend.”
You know it can potentially RUIN your friendship. But, you’re hooked…
You only have two things you can do if you’re on this type of situation: Steal her or admire from afar.
– If you steal her…
On this path, you have to be prepared for the negative consequences.
The wrath of your friend, the ruined friendship, and worse – the guaranteed judgment from family and friends.
You’ll have to ask, is SHE really worth it? Is she everything your imagination (and lustful heart) believes she is?
And when you find it awkward to be near your bro and his girl…the only thing you can do is to stay away. Keep some distance.
Which, of course will lead to a lot of questions – Why are you staying away? You don’t like her for your friend’s girlfriend?
Whatever decision you make, there’s ONE thing you need to remember…
STAND BY YOUR CHOICE.
You live with it, you stick by it and NEVER look back.
And in the end, you’ll notice something. She has flaws, too. She won’t ever be as perfect to you as you think she is.
And sometimes you realize that you feel this way about her simply because you can’t have her, which is a real distortion of the mind.
Remember, women are EVERYWHERE. Billions of them on this planet!
You’ve got more than enough to choose from, and this one chick is not the be-all end-all. And to think she is would be scarcity thinking at its worst.
So let go of that fantasy – and find the reality of your own woman – who is waiting to be discovered.
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