Confidence: Part 7 – Impeccable

Part of being confident is having the courage to be honest with women, regardless of the outcome. As long as you are being true to who you are and what you want, they will respect you. Treat them with respect too. Be honest.

Another benefit to being impeccable, is that women will trust you. And when a woman feels that trust, they are free to let themselves be open with you in many ways. Especially in the bedroom. When a woman trusts you, she is free to let herself go and be as expressive as she wants to be, knowing that you will be there supporting her.

You have something that a lot of bad boys have: self-interest. This can be good or bad. In the bad boy case, they can be selfish, lying, and manipulative dicks. Yet women still feel that pull toward them because they are confident and strong.

Unreliable and deceptive, yes, but they are also bold and exciting. However, this is only short-lived and ends in scorned, angry, and sometimes broken women that we have to deal with later. They are angry at all men because of a few asshats. So don’t be one of those guys. Thanks.

But in your case, you add honesty, so that there is no manipulation involved. There is self-interest, but it is healthy self-interest. You have made clear where you stand, set your boundaries, and stuck to your word. You are strong, confident, AND impeccable.

Sexy indeed. So this allows the same open expressiveness, without the fear of false hope. I know there can be many arguments here on the varying degrees of what women will feel in these situations, but bottom line, which would you rather be, stud, or asshat?

Say what you mean and be clear on what you want from the very start. You will come across as an honorable MAN who knows who he is and knows how to treat a woman. And, sad to say, this is no longer the norm. You will stand out above your competition.

This will not only help you in love, but it will help you in every aspect of your life. Be impeccable in your words and deeds and you will never have to worry about a lie you told, or having a crazy betrayed woman cutting off your manly bits and feeding them to a pit bull.

Go On, Be Strong

Spike Spencer, the Dating Sage
www.DontKillYourDate.com