The Instant Attraction Trigger You Need to Learn

The easiest way to make women like you is by showing them your relationship potential. When it comes to attracting a girl, the first thing her brain is going to look for is your ability to be a good partner.

I’ll be blunt: unless you get past this barrier, she’ll never want to get naked with you.

I mean, most guys will want to sleep with a girl even if they never see each other again. That’s just how we are.

As for a woman, she’s looking for “boyfriend qualities” in a guy before he can get any further with her. One of these important traits is none other than the ability to keep her interested on a consistent basis.

And a lot of that comes from being able to keep the levity alive. In other words, you need to make a woman laugh.

This is one of the most powerful ways to make her want to get with you. Being humorous speaks of a confident personality, which is what any guy should aspire for.

Plus, a funny guy doesn’t take himself too seriously, which means he has an easy-going vibe that pulls women in.

If that wasn’t enough, consider the fact that humor and intelligence are closely linked. If you’re funny and engaging, she’ll put two and two together in your favor.

Besides, you’ve heard the worn-out phrase about laughter’s therapeutic effects, right? Well, it works in dating as well.

Pickup artists are good at taking women through an emotional ride using stories that evoke excitement and/or humor. They understand that the more a woman is amused, the easier it is to trigger all those feel-good hormones in her brain.

Ever wonder why people refer to the feeling of attraction as “chemistry”?

Laughter and excitement leads to attraction because of the onset of neurotransmitters like dopamine that give her a natural high. So in short, making her laugh will literally get her addicted to you.

A sure-fire way to get her interested is by recounting a good story, like something stupid that happened to you, or a scary situation that you got out of. The key is to spice things up from an emotional perspective.

When guys have a conversation with their friends, they usually leave this out and stick to the facts instead.

Women require a different approach. Don’t just give her the details – put some feelings into it!

It’s no mystery that women love emotional chaos, and if you can introduce a dash of drama to your storytelling routine (in a funny kind of way), then you’ve got her locked in.

Any good story has a catchy opening act and a middle part that turns up the tension. Then the story needs to come to a head so that it reaches a climax where everything works out and you live happily ever after.

When you play it this way – things starting out horribly but turning out OK in the end – she’ll end up laughing at your close shave (e.g. “You still managed to make it to your friend’s bachelor party AFTER getting robbed? Haha, that’s awesome!”).

So that’s really your basic guideline: Give her the chance to live through your stories, and she’ll be chasing after that rush – and after you.

After all, she wouldn’t want to stick around with a boring guy, right? In the long run, she needs a man who can make her experience all those good emotions.

More importantly, this actually takes precedence over physical attributes. Notice how some stand-up comics or comedians that aren’t exactly ripped still manage to get loads of women?

Let that sink in for a moment.

Aside from humor though, you can increase your chances exponentially by always having enough testosterone. Like it or not, women can unconsciously detect if a guy is packing enough of it in his system.

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Stay Alpha,

– Carlos Xuma