Tips on how to make a woman want you on Facebook
You’ve been eyeing her, a girl you really want on Facebook, for a long time. You’re hoping that you can connect with her, ask her out and make her yours.
But, you’re stuck. Paralyzed with fear. Not sure of how to make it happen and clueless on what to do.
Well, here are 3 proven tips that you can use to get rapport and connection with you – and her attention…
Meet Girls On Facebook – Tip #1: Fix your Facebook profile
Make sure your Facebook shows the best side of you. Your profile is an important aspect of your “first impression” in her eyes.
What should your profile look like?
– Make sure you don’t have a blank profile. It shows to the girl the lack of disinterest on your part about life. She can profile you as boring and that is a major turn off.
– Show your interests and hobbies. Just be real. Update your profile with your legit interests and hobbies. Make it legit so when you get to go out with her, you don’t have to pretend liking or doing something you’re not used to. Just avoid overly geeky stuff that women can’t relate to, like guns, martial arts, and computer tech stuff. Sure, some women dig this, but it’s rare, and you want to cast a wide net.
Having that information on your profile lets her know that you are an interesting and fun guy.
– No negativity! Try and stay away from posting negative thoughts or gloomy stuff. That will only scare her off. Remember, your profile is her first impression of you. Show her you’re a good guy and you’re the right guy for her. The good thing is, you don’t need to say it yourself. Your profile can do all the heavy lifting for you.
Meet Girls On Facebook – Tip #2: Get to know her
Now, that you have improved your Facebook profile to set yourself up for success, it’s time to check out her profile too, so you can get a good understanding of who she is and what possible common interests you both have.
Here’s how you do it:
– Status updates. Read her recent posts, this is a great way for you to understand what she’s feeling and where she’s coming from. You’ll know what she is really thinking about.
Isn’t that what you want? To read her mind?
– Likes on pages, photos and posts. Don’t you know that you can determine her personality based on what pages, photos or posts that she likes on Facebook?
For example, if you see her liking dramatic movies, songs about love then you can predict that she is a passionate woman, probably intense and exciting. If she likes a lot of romantically themed stuff, you might also figure out that she’s starved for real affection and romance.
Meet Girls On Facebook – Tip #3: Interact with herYou’ve improved your profile and got to know her through her Facebook page. Now you’re ready to communicate with her.
Start by liking her posts, photos and status updates. That will make her see you as someone that is regular on her Facebook.
Then send her a very casual private message. Just ask for something that she will need to answer.
Like, if she posted about a restaurant where she just ate and you saw that she posted that she likes it, send a SHORT message saying “Hey, I saw your post about this restaurant, where is it located?”, when she answers, follow it up with something like, what she can recommend…and so on.
Pay attention to her responses, and keep it casual. She will figure out that you’re trying to start up a connection and give you more in her responses to play with. When she does, pick up the ball and ask more questions to learn more about her.
Just keep that up and in no time, she’ll be comfortable with you, and you’ll be on your way on getting the girl you want.
Remember, nothing beats connection with a woman. If she feels you “see” her and you “get” her, she will want to get with you.
If you’d like to learn more about how to attract women in this new digital age, check THIS out…
Stay Alpha…
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