What Do Women Really Think About?
What is she really thinking? I bet you want to know. And who doesn’t?
Hell, sometimes SHE wants to know what she’s thinking.
Women are confusing and they don’t make things easy on guys.
Even Edward Cullen, the supposedly hottest vampire from the “Twilight” movies – who women drool over – would want to read Bella’s mind, the woman he loves – and it frustrates the hell out of him because he can’t.
A scene from a “Twilight” movie proves that:
Isabella Swan: Wait. You say you heard what they were thinking? So what you…you read minds?
Edward Cullen: I can read every mind in this room apart from yours. There’s…Money. Sex. Money. Sex. Cat…And then you, nothing. That’s very frustrating.
The same thing happens in the True Blood series, where they give the WOMAN the ability to read men’s minds – which is a woman’s fantasy-come-true.
We asked a few women and here are some of the things they think about that you might find helpful to better understand the woman you want in your life.
WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: The first time you meet
The first time she sees you, she’s checking you out. Thinking “Is he hot? Can I date him?”
Then she sees you looking at her…. “He’s checking me out!”
You looked away… “I didn’t like you anyway”
You smiled…” Wow, he smiled at me! I wonder how he is as a boyfriend. I want to find out”
WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: Your first date
You are late … “ How dare is he! He’s 5 minutes late! What does he think of me? How disrespectful. Oh well, its okay. I can do better.”
You’re on time… “YES! I’m so excited. You’re here. I can’t wait for the rest of the night. You’re cute. Can’t wait to kiss you!”
WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: During the date
You accidentally looked at the waitress… “Nice, he’s one of those guys. He’s checking her out. How rude! My evening is ruined. He’s a dick!”
You’re staring at her all night long… ”He really likes me. I’m feeling nervous. He’s making me feel like I’m the only woman in the room. He must like me a lot! I’m having the time of my life. He could be The One. “
WHAT SHE’S THINKING ABOUT: The first kiss
“This is it. He’s going to kiss me. He better be good. Nice, he’s taking it slow.”
You pulled away and say goodnight… “Wow. He’s such a gentleman. I want to kiss him more.”
You keep on kissing her because you’re starved for romance…”This is nice. Uh oh, he’s coming on too strong. I don’t like this. He’s only after one thing from me. I will stop this now and never see him again. He’s a freak.”
The point is that she’s thinking a variety of things, all the time – and even at the SAME time. Women cannot control the thoughts that often intrude on them, which gives rise to all kinds of weird moody comments, and even some strangely hot/cold behavior that is really confusing.
The point is simply to worry less about WHAT she’s thinking and simply create the most stable, safe situation for her to feel what she’s going to feel. As the saying goes, if you don’t like her mood now, just wait 2 minutes for it to change again…
Stay Alpha…
– Carlos Xuma
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