When to Call Women

It is human nature to want what you can’t have. You know how the grass is always greener on the other side. Well if you are a single guy in the dating arena, you need to understand this and use it to your advantage. Everyone else is figuring out ways to make themselves more attractive to others. You need to do the same if you are going to compete in the dating world.

Think of like this: when something is rare or hard to obtain, it becomes valuable. For instance, that’s why diamonds cost you an arm and a leg. They are not something you can go dig up in your own backyard. What about that painting that skyrockets in value when the artist dies? Same deal.

Make yourself that rare, difficult to obtain commodity.

It is all about perception. Here is how you can create that perception in your interactions with women. Specifically, when you have already struck up a conversation and now have her phone number. Let’s look at what works and how to create that impression of scarcity as it relates to picking up the phone and punching in her phone number.

When to Call Women Tips:

1. After you get a phone number, wait at least 24 hours before you call a woman. Any sooner than that and you seem desperate and might as well hang the big red L on your forehead to announce you are a loser.

2. Don’t call her anytime between Friday evening and Sunday evening. Why? You are too busy with your exciting life and weekend plans to have time to call her during this time period. Maybe late Sunday after you are resting from your whirlwind weekend, but no sooner. Make your cut off point Friday morning. Better yet, don’t call after Thursday night.

3. Leaving messages. If you’ve called and left a message, don’t even think about calling again until at least 48 hours has passed. Then, call and then (if you don’t reach her a second time), leave a very brief message. That’s it. Two calls. No return call and you strike you. That is the last message you will leave her UNLESS she calls you back.

4. Delay returning her calls. If she does call you back or text you back, wait at least a few hours to get back to her. You are busy, remember?

5. Every once in a while don’t answer the phone. Even when you have a back-and-forth thing going with the phone, every once in a while ignore her call and then wait to return it. You are creating the appearance of scarcity, right? Stand firm no matter how eager you are to speak to her.

This might seem like game playing, but in reality, you are fooling yourself if you don’t think she is doing the exact same thing. Play by the rules, be sure everything you do has integrity and honesty, follow these tips on when to call women and you’ll be set.