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FROM: Carlos Xuma
Thursday - 8:54 PM

Dear Friend,

Confidence is the number one concern for every guy I've ever met.

Women want it from us, and guys spend most of their lives working on feeling it and showing it. And when you don't feel confident, your life just doesn't feel right.

Have you ever felt: you're destroying your chances with women because you don't have the level of self-confidence you need? you're barely maintaining your level of confidence with women - and sometimes you feel like you're actually back-sliding in your game? your emotions and your feelings make you do crazy things - stuff you can't seem to control?

I know I have, and it's not a fun way to live...

And the worst part of this feeling is that NO ONE in your life ever sat you down and explained just how confidence really works, did they?

You never got a book from your parents on "how to be confident and more sure of yourself." And I know you didn't have a class in school that told you "How to Be Confident With Women."

Most guys have to learn by trial and error.

And more error.

And a lot more error.

Well, stick with me, because there's something else you need to know about how confidence REALLY works.

First, let me ask you this:

If you've ever had ANY of these things happen to you, you know that your level of "inner game" - or your self-confidence and "emotional intelligence" - was the one thing you wish you had more of.

If you could just control your fear and your anxieties, all those crazy emotions that make us do things that don't even feel like us, you know that you could improve your success ratio with women. I know how shaky I used to feel with women, and knowing it was my inner confidence holding me back.

And the worst part of this for me was knowing that - not only was it ME doing this to myself - but the fact that...

Feeling Out of Control is Probably the Most Frustrating Experience for Men...

I think that every guy has had that feeling - almost like being possessed - where you just can't seem to control your emotions, or your own behavior. You know what you SHOULD be doing, but when you try to do it, there's this invisible force that stops you.

This was one of my biggest challenges. I had a bad temper, and I could barely control myself when I was around an attractive girl. I would start acting up - just like a little bratty kid. I could even SEE myself doing it, and KNOWING that it was killing my chances with this girl... but I just couldn't help myself.

And then I went on this massive inner game "quest" I guess you could call it. I wanted to figure out how to get control of my confidence, my emotions, and my crazy mind.

What is Inner Game?

Well, it's a pretty fancy term for some of our most important traits as a man.

Inner Game includes things like:

Inner Game can also mean many more things to you. Here are some of the different definitions that guys have told me over the years:

You Can Get All The Phone Numbers And Dates You Want...

If You Don't Have Inner Game, They Won't Go
Beyond "Let's Just Be Friends..."

I see a lot of guys learning the "48 Second Technique To Get A Woman's Phone Number." Yeah, great stuff, until you realize that this will not guarantee you:

- get her to answer the phone, or...

- get a date with her, or...

- that she'll be attracted to you, or...

- that you will be able to escalate physically with her.

In fact, getting a phone number is only the START of the game.

If you don't have the confidence and psychology mastered in advance, you probably won't even get past the approach - IF you even approach her at all.

And sometimes that knowledge will be enough to give guys approach anxiety right away.

Just imagine what you could do if you knew you wouldn't be shaken up or rattled by a beautiful woman's attitude...

What do you need to feel in order to
get your "Inner Game" handled?

Ultimately, it really boils down to a feeling of control over your own life.

You don't want to feel like other people control your success with women. And you sure as hell don't want to feel like you can't control your own success with women.

Let me ask you something...

You ever try using a line on a woman and have it fall flat - like, dead embarrassing silence flat on its face?

I have, too.

I coach and talk to guys every day that learn a lot of techniques and "lines" to use on women, but they don't seem to work for them.

Why don't techniques and routines work?

Usually because of the level of self-esteem and self confidence of the guy using them.

And, in reality, just by using another guy's lines and words, you're sending a subtle message to your self-esteem that the only thing you can do to attract women is NOT be yourself. And that doesn't increase a guy's inner game.

But Don't You Need Techniques and "Outer Game" Stuff To Attract Women?

YES! You do need them.

And that's why I teach those, too.

I know a lot of guys that would tell you that you don't need techniques - that if you have the inner game confidence, then your outer game is automatic.

Well, that's not always true.

I'm sure you've felt confidence walking up to a woman and found that your tongue was tied and your head got all foggy the second you tried to say something. And I bet it killed your confidence quick, too, didn't it?

So, yes, you absolutely need the techniques and conversational strategies that I teach.

BUT the fact is that you simply cannot run completely on "Outer Game" scripts either - on techniques and routines - all by themselves. Otherwise you end up with game that looks like this:

ultimate inner self-confidence

This is what you don't want...

See that small area where "inner game" and "outer game" intersect? That's weak, wussy game that women can detect a mile away. And thanks to television shows and "pickup artist" stuff, women know all about the routines and openers you use.

That gray outer game bubble is weak and tiny because you're forced to "fake" a lot more than you should have to. And it doesn't take much to pop that bubble.

Now, just imagine what would happen when your Inner Game and your Outer Game are complete and congruent.

Your game would look like THIS:

ultimate inner self-confidence

Big difference, huh?

And let's face it, no one ever explains to you how your mind works - or teaches you how to control and manage your emotions and thoughts.

I went through all 12 grades of regular school, and another 6 years of college, and I never once did a teacher tell me how to be more confident. (Especially when I was just a young boy and I needed it the most!)

NOBODY teaches us this stuff. We're supposed to just "figure it out" all on our own.

It's like looking for a needle in a haystack - of needles!


Let Me Tell You a Story...

I had this girlfriend. Her name was Christina, and I was really into her. She was tall, thin, red hair, and a hot body that just drove me crazy...

Well, that was the problem.

We had been dating about 3 months when I started feeling myself go down that old familiar road of "You're Messing This Up!" You know, when you can't believe you're worthy of this girl, and then you start acting like you're not worthy?

And then along comes "Mr. Self-sabotage..."

First I got drunk at her high school reunion, then I started doing those typical self-destructive things, like calling her too much, and going over to see her all the time.

The bad part was I knew I was being needy and insecure, but I couldn't seem to stop myself. It was like I had a voice in my head telling me that I was messing this up, but I couldn't help but keep doing it!

And then I went and got jealous of how much time she was spending with her other friends. I remember calling her six times one night to tell her how I'd "figured out where I made my mistake" and I was going to change right away.

...And then she told me we needed to take a "break."


In the end, I got dumped. Big time.

This one you might relate to: I was dating another girl, Shelly, for a couple months.

One night I went over to pay her a surprise visit. (Guess who got surprised?)

She wasn't home when I got there, so I waited in the parking lot for her.

Until about 3:00 AM, when I finally realized she was staying the night somewhere else...

With someone else.

BIG ouch.

I fell into a deep depression after all this and went to go see a therapist. It was over 8 months before I got out of it completely.

Yeah, it was BAD. I feel a little sick just talking about it right now.

But There Is A Happy Ending To The Story...

During this time, I finally found the skills I needed to overcome my emotional issues.

I realized that getting my self-confidence and self-control was the key to taking care of 90% of my issues in my personal life, AND my dating life.

I figured out how I was driving away the women in my life. And I figured out how to hang out with people and just be a cool guy to be with.

It was like getting out of a walk-in freezer to go outside into bright, warm sunshine.

Even better was this sense inside that I could finally RELAX, you know? Stop making all this stuff such a priority and just be able to chill out and not be a nervous head case everywhere I went.


Women Can Read Your Inner Game Like Nobody Else Can...

Something I noticed is that women can be the most irrational creatures on the planet - and they can also read a man's level of confidence better than anyone else.

She just knows this stuff, and as annoying as it is to have a woman that can read you, it has the ultimate effect of keeping us honest.

Have you ever heard someone tell you that women want "confident" guys?

Only about a milion times, probably.

Well, the last thing you need is to feel like your game is being destroyed by a woman that can see right through you.

What they say is true...

Fix Your Inner Game And Everything Else
Really Does Take Care of Itself

Something else I discovered as I was coaching men and teaching them some of the secrets of ultimate inner game was that when a guy would finally get focused on the right parts of his personality and his self-improvement, he got good with women.

And I mean SCARY good.

And he usually had no idea WHY this was happening, either.

He'd find that he was not only able to be more relaxed and "in the moment" with women," but he was also able to just come up with the perfect things to say in any situation.

What was happening was that he was unlocking his own Natural Game.

What is "Natural Game"?

Well, quite simply, it's the kind of game a guy has when he's not trying to be someone else. He's comfortable in his own skin, and it shows.

He's not using pickup artist material. He's not being sneaky or trying to hypnotize women with "trance words."

He's just tuned into his own natural ability. All guys have it, but our inner game doesn't come with an instruction book, so we spend years and years trying to figure out how it's supposed to work.

Take This Quick Inner Game Quiz:

Answer each of these questions in your head and add up all the ones you answer "YES" to...

    1. Do you feel confident everywhere else, but when you're with a woman you really want it all disappears?

    2. Are you confident with certain women, but the 9s and 10s leave you speechless and nervous?

    3. Are you ever intimidated by trying to date younger, more attractive women?

    4. Do you have trouble handling the other more aggressive guys out there?

    5. Do you feel invisible to women? Do you feel like beautiful women shake you up?

    6. Do you intellectually know that sex with a woman won't really solve all your problems, but you still feel driven to pursue it at all costs?

    7. Do you ever feel "stuck" in your head? Do you feel like you think more about things than you should?

    8. Do you frequently feel indecisive? Anxious? Nervous? So much that it's holding you back from doing things other people seem to have no problem with?

    9. Do you know that your knowledge and experience needs to be put to work in the real world, but you can't seem to find those steps to "connect the dots" to get started?

    10. Do you just want to feel comfortable in your own skin? And authentic to who you are?

    11. Do you want to be able to express your feelings and true personality? Free from being judged by other people's critical eye?

    12. Do you want to feel like the "prize" that a woman is desperate to win?

If you answered 4 or more questions "YES" in the quiz above, you're like 85-90% of the guys I've worked with - and you're completely NORMAL.

The problem is that most other guys out there would never admit it, so you end up feeling like the weird and "insecure" one.

The secret truth that guys don't know is that most men out there are playing the "fake it" game with their inner game and self-confidence. In fact, 80% or more of the guys that you think of as "very confident" are probably even MORE anxious in their heads than you would believe.

Most guys are "faking it" with women.

First, here's another little secret for you:

Natural Game Is What You Have When You Finally Master Your Inner Game...

Every one of the guys that I've coached to get their inner game together has made the discovery that his game with women comes easily and naturally when he finds his confidence.

He also finds that:


Your Inner Game Can Mess Up Your Social Life, Too...

Have you ever been out trying to meet people and have fun, or maybe you were just hanging around your friends, and you couldn't seem to feel like you were "IN" the conversation? They seemed to have their little "clique" with each other, but they didn't seem to want to connect with you, no matter how hard you tried.

The fact is that your level of inner confidence also affects how successful you are with your social life and social network, too.

But, the same as dating, your "natural social game" comes automatically when your inner game is feeling solid and stable.

So what are the most important parts of your inner game to work on?

Here Are The 6 Key Areas Of
A Man's Core Inner Game

Now I'm going to share with you the 6 key areas of inner game that a man must understand and master. When you have these taken care of, you'll find that the others just take care of themselves...



This is one that is probably tops on every guy's list of things he wants to improve.

We want to be confident and secure, and we want to really like who we are as a person. There's really no greater thing to aspire to in our lives.

But HOW do you improve it? It's not one of those things that anyone ever teaches you in school. Heck, even my own dad didn't teach me this when I was growing up and getting picked on by other kids. My parents would tell me to just "not let it bother me." What good is that?

Well, while I was doing some research for this article I found a bunch of news reports about how your self-esteem is pretty much connected to everything in your life - like:

  • Your level of income...

  • The amount of satisfaction you get from your frienships...

  • Your health - including how often you get sick - and how long you will live...

  • Your job security...

  • Your happiness...

  • The relationship you have with your family...

Isn't it amazing how one psychological factor - your self-confidence - can account for such a HUGE part of a man's life?



This is what I wished I'd had when I found myself calling my ex in the middle of the night, or waiting out in that girl's parking lot for 6 hours for her to come home from her other boyfriend.

Self-discipline is that ability to say what you should when you know you should, and - more importantly - keeping your mouth shut when you ought to just be quiet.

Emotional control is one of those things every guy wants when he has a woman that likes to "push his buttons."

And it's something we ABSOLUTELY need when a woman starts testing us. You ever feel your panic start to rise when a woman asks you a test question like, "Do you have a girlfriend?"

A woman's ultimate decision about how she feels about you always comes down to how you control your emotions at a few key and critical moments.

Will you know what to do when the time comes?

The next area of inner game that you have to know is...



You might also call this "How to Change Yourself" - without the burnout and frustration.

This is another skill that no one ever taught us: How to change.

I was brought up in a family that didn't ever seem to change. My dad smoked like a chimney, and he tried EVERYTHING you can imagine to quit. From acupuncture to hypnotism. He kept smoking until the day he died.

My uncle was always getting crappy jobs, drinking like a fish, and doing more drugs than most of the rock bands I was listening to. I listened to his lame excuses for his behavior, and I heard about him trying to rehab every week.

He's in his fifties now and he still hasn't changed. Not ONE BIT.

It's discouraging seeing so many people who never seem to change.

But then I saw other people in my life changing their lives around. I had friends that quit smoking and became respectable and successful.

So I had to figure out what it was that made them different, and why they were able to change when others didn't.

And not just the secret of how to kick one bad habit, because that could just be a fluke. I wanted to know how to change or improve whatever I wanted so that I could be the man I wanted to be.

This is the essence of personal change, and it's one of the most essential skills of inner game to learn. Because without it, you'll never be able to make the others work for you.

The belief and ability to change is crucial to any Alpha Man's skills, as is his sense of...



Look, as guys, we know that losing our hair doesn't mean one bit of difference to who we really are as men. After all, there isn't a special nerve connection from your scalp to the "confidence center" of your brain, so it shouldn't mean anything to us, right?


The way we feel about our appearance impacts our level of self-esteem and how attractive we feel with women.

But why is it that you've seen some bald guys that get a TON of action from women, AND they are more confident than Tom Cruise. What's different about them?

Yup. It's that darn Inner Game again.

These guys know something different about themselves that stops them from seeing the missing hair as being a reason to feel like they are less attractive or less manly.

And they also have the ability to...



This is one area that men don't like to talk about. I know I didn't.

Hey, what guy wants to admit that he's got a fear of women, or feels a sick, anxious knot of heat in the middle of his stomach when he walks up to talk to a woman?

But there are so many guys who run into the brick wall of their own emotions in many different situations.

It's not our fault!

Men simply are not brought up to manage or understand their emotions the same way women are. But emotional intelligence is the number one indicator of your level of happiness, life satisfaction, and ultimate level of success.

The skills to manage our internal state are also incredibly important for when we want to approach women, or when we want to move in for the kiss, or escalate things sexually with a woman.

And, funny enough, this also leads to...



Wait, didn't I say "Inner Game" areas?

Yes, I did. And your social skills fit right into your inner game.

Here's how...

You ever been with a group of your friends when you crack a joke at the right time, you get some big laughs, and suddenly everyone warms up to you? You feel like you're one of the "cool people" in just one moment. You managed to change yourself from 'outsider' to 'insider' with just one quick social move.

Now, tell me that you wouldn't feel like 'The Man' right at that moment.

You would feel on top of the world, wouldn't you?

Your inner confidence increases massively from your OUTER experience.

And THAT is the big secret of inner game.

Your Inner Game does not improve without outer game techniques and successes that complete the circuit for you. Inner Game is like the positive terminal on a battery... you have all this potential, but nothing happens until you connect it to the negative terminal of your battery - your OUTER game.

And this is what I finally figured out after years of just trying to "read books" and "listen to tapes." Those methods don't work unless you get something practical you can use to really see and feel the change in your experience.

The Best News Is That You Don't Have To "CHANGE" Yourself...
Or FIGHT Yourself.

In fact, if you're trying to CHANGE yourself, you're probably not going to succeed.

The biggest mistake I found guys making was that they were working really hard to "change themselves." And as we all know, changing yourself is a very big task.

But that's only if you're doing it the WRONG WAY.


Let me ask you something - Have you ever heard of Aikido?

It's a very cool martial art.

Yeah, kung-fu, heeee-ya, and all that.

Basically, in this style, what you do is use your opponent's energy against himself. If he tries to hit you, you just step aside and redirect him into a wall, or a door, or down some stairs.

THUNK. Problem solved.

And you only used about 1/100th the energy to end the confrontation than he did to start it.

You might have seen Steven Segal in his movies use this style of fighting.

WHAP! The bad guy is thrown over a bar...

BLAM! The punk is tossed into a car windshield...

FLIP! The villain is launched into the exploding building...

And the hero hardly breaks a sweat.

Well, the brilliant part of the martial art of Aikido is that it's the best philosophy to use in just about every situation you can imagine. Verbal situations and social situations.

Very little energy and effort - and HUGE results.

Stay with me here - this is cool...

Because The Worst Thing You Can Do Is To FIGHT Your Own Self-Confidence... Instead, Work WITH IT.

A lot of guys I've met and coached in the past were always trying very hard to overcome their limitations and self-confidence issues by what I call "bulldogging" it.

Have you ever seen a bulldog get hold of a rag toy? It will chomp down and shake its head and tug and pull... It will usually pull the toy away from whoever is fighting with it.

But here's the real problem: The bulldog only has enough fight in him for a couple of those tug-of-war matches before he's all out of energy. Then it's all over for him.

Men are the same way.

If we take this "grit your teeth" attitude, we might win the first few rounds against our own self-confidence and self-esteem, but we usually just run out of energy and give up a short time later. We give up on our new habits just because they take too much energy to keep them going!

Enter The Dragon...

Well, not really the dragon, but something very much like it.

Whenever we fight the natual energy of a situation, we usually end up exhausted and beaten.

But when you go WITH it, you get much more done.

You may have heard the saying: "The reed that bends does not break."

Well, that's especially true with your confidence and self-esteem.

In fact - if you FIGHT your own natural tendencies, you will probably take MUCH longer to improve your inner game than if you just got it together. (And there are a lot you have that you might not even know about...)

Using the principles of Aikido on your inner game will make a HUGE difference in your results. And it's this philosophy that allowed me to realize how to get past my own limitations...


Here Are The Two Huge Realizations That Released My Stuck Brakes...

The unfortunate fact is that most guys like you and me want to improve our confidence and Alpha game, but there is so much junk out there that it's like panning for gold in a mountain stream.

TONS of work with very little payoff.

This is why most guys end up bored, frustrated - and they quit. And then they end up settling for less in their lives.

They fight long and hard to get very little results.

All because they didn't have the understanding of "Aikido" for their inner game.

Here are the BIG realizations I discovered about my inner game...

My Big Realization #1: If I got just ONE thing out of a book or program that helped me, it was worth any amount of money.

I mean, if some tip helped me get even just a little bit more confident, it was worth the work to find it. It's just like rock climbing - if you find just one place to hold onto that's a bit further up, the next one is now probably within your reach.

Every little bit counts.

I even stopped whining that this or that book/tape wasn't worth the money, and I'd keep everything I got - knowing that there was always at least one secret in it that would help my game.

And I found a LOT of secrets over the years.

And then I had...

My Big Realization #2: My brain is tricking me and doesn't help me most of the time.

Have you ever been in a moving vehicle, like a car or a train, and you've been riding along for a few minutes. And then you come to a stop, but for some reason it still feels like you're still moving?

It's just like those "optical illusions" you see in books, where your brain can be tricked by a simple pattern on a piece of paper.

Well, I realized after many years of struggling, that my own mind was tricking me in a lot of ways. Like making me think that what other people were thinking of me was good or bad - or that it really mattered at all.

Once I finally understood WHY I thought these things, and - more importantly - what I should be focusing on, I stopped feeling so self-conscious with women and in social groups.

And finally...


My Big Realization #3: If I re-read a book, or listened to a program again, I'd always find 2 or 3 more great strategies that I could use that I didn't hear the first time.

Usually a lot more than that!

I must have read 200 books and listened to another hundred tapes and CDs on self-development. I went through everything I could find out there.

Not everything I read was new to me. In fact, the reality is that most of that stuff only had a couple nuggets of pure gold in them. But inevitably I'd read a book and find one or more new concepts or techniques that really grabbed me.

The funny thing was that those new things I found were there before, but my mind just wasn't ready to find them the first time around. I mean, there were some really incredible insights in there just waiting to be found...

But then I thought, who has the time to go through hundreds and hundreds of hours of programs over and over again like I did?

I don't think anyone wants to "pan for gold" like that.

So after going through most of my notes, my workbooks, and journals, I decided to pull together all the stuff I had on this one topic of self-confidence and inner game into something that any guy could use - and not have to spend months and years learning.


Wouldn't It Be Cool If You Could Compact Months and Years Of Self-Help Work Into Just A Fraction Of The Time?

Look, the reality is that most people simply don't have the time or even the interest in reading hundreds of books and listening to countless hours of self-help programs like I did.

(Honestly, you get a little weird when you go off the deep end learning this kind of stuff. I was a bit strange...)

So I thought, wouldn't it be great if I could just pull all the best tips, tactics, strategies, and techniques I had figured out over the years and just create one giant CONCENTRATED program.

A "super-program," if you like.

I wanted to give you only the skills you need most to conquer your "inner game" and throw out all the garbage and nonsense out there that doesn't work. (Because there's a lot of fluff in most of those programs out there.)

Just like concentrated soap, where a little goes a LONG way.

Well, it took me a few years, but I finally did it.

It's Time To Make a Deep Internal Shift -
A BREAKTHROUGH In Your Thinking...

Have you tried other programs in the past and had difficulties getting the information to "stick" with you?

Or you knew the information was valuable and could work, but you didn't have the "HOW" to do it?

I had the same experience with a lot of the books I read out there. What I discovered was that I wasn't able to keep up the new habits and skills they taught me.

Since I first wrote The Dating Black Book over 7 years ago, I've seen guys making the same mistakes over and over again. Whether it was in bootcamps or seminars, they would inevitably make the same classic error.

Once they saw what they were doing, they were able to get out of their own way and release the "emergency brake" on their energy and power with women. It was a lot like experiencing a giant Tesla coil with lightning arcing across a room.

Women stood up and took notice.

What Is The BIG Error That Most Guys Make?

The error was trying to substitute a "technique" or a "line" to cover up their feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, or nervousness.

What most guys don't realize or find out is that a lot of the "pickup artist" material out there doesn't work if your inner game is weak to begin with. In fact, it's downright damaging.

I'm sure you've seen or experienced this yourself. If you try to use a line on a woman and you don't have the attitude to back it up, she will cut you apart.

The tragedy of this situation is that most guys will never get the success they truly deserve with women... NOT because they are inadequate or can't "change" themselves, but because they don't understand how to use their natural abilities to master their emotions and their thinking.

Your biggest enemy in life is probably your own level of frustration and discouragement.

15 Years of Inner Game Techniques and Skills - Distilled Down to Just the Parts You Need...

I'm a bit of a weirdo...

I've got a passion for self-development and the whole "psychology of achievement" field. I've spent over 15 years reading books, listening to tapes, going to seminars and lectures, watching videos, and doing just about every crazy thing you can think of to stop my worrying and insecurity and self-confidence issues.

Yeah, I've done just about everything you can imagine (from therapists to witch doctors.) And I now know what really does work and what really does NOT work.

Have you ever wanted to know:

Now you can have the state-of-the-art techniques and secrets that I wish I'd found years ago...

My Ultimate Inner Game method shows you the recipes, techniques, tactics, strategies, secrets, tricks, and exercises that will get you un-stuck.

I'm not going to kid you. This home-study program is big - I didn't leave any stones unturned.

But my Ultimate Inner Game system is designed to start raising your overall confidence level in the first 24 hours after you start listening and using the information.

No weird affirmations and weak self-hypnosis, and nothing you can't put to use quickly and easily.

And it's not just good for getting women... It's good for EVERY area of your life you want to feel more confidence and power over your life.

And the best part is that once you conquer your Inner Game, you'll feel the kind of peace that buddhist monks will envy.

And then the rest of your life really will take care of itself.

Fix your inner game, and your outer game will run like a finely tuned sports car.

Ignore it, and you'll have constant breakdowns and you'll experience the ongoing fear of being stranded and alone by the side of the road of your own life...

Do you ever feel like women have way more control over you than you'd like them to have...?

Do you ever feel like your emotions and your willpower were just out of control - and this was sabotaging your ability to get a girl interested in you...?

Do you ever feel like no matter what stuff you use - pickup lines, and seduction techniques, and all those techniques that other guys used - you still have some element of you that is still not quite "dialed in" ... and if you could tweak this one part of you - you'd really see a lot more improvement with your dating life...?


How Would You Like To Feel Like You're
100 Feet Tall And Made Out of Solid Diamond...?

Most therapists will keep you "on the couch" for years before you make any significant progress in terms of your inner game and self-esteem, much less any progress with women.

If you've tried EVERYTHING before to get you out of the situation you're in, and you just can't get your situation fixed, or figure out where to go next, this program is definitely for you...

If you feel out of control in your dating life, unable to get a grip on things, or you feel like your situation is hopeless, or that you're trapped or doomed, this program will show you exactly how to get your hands back on the steering wheel of your life...

If you've had a problem dealing with rejection from women, or getting over a tough breakup, this program will give you the clarity you seek, and the ability to raise your self-esteem over this hurdle with ease...

If you've ever dealt with depression, or just getting bummed over your situation, you're going to learn the secrets to turning on your emotional control mechanisms, and snap out of any funk in just a few minutes...

If you've been having problems with your social life, just making friends and being a fun guy that people want to hang out with, I'll teach you the bottom-line skills you must have to destroy your anxiety and increase your social network ginormously...

This Is Your Inner Game - Version 2.0 Through Version 2000...

Here are some of the other things this Ultimate Inner Game system will show you...


Are You Ready For An Offer You Simply Can't Refuse...?

No One Has Ever Delivered THIS:

As you can see, I've packed in just about every conceivable part of inner game in this program. I left no stone unturned.

But in case I didn't put in what you need....

To be absolutely sure that the program meets your requirements, if you find a topic that has NOT been addressed in the program that you need, simply email me at my special Hotline To Carlos Link, and let me know - and I will CREATE additional content to make sure your questions get answered.

I can't possibly imagine that I haven't covered it all in this program, but if I missed something you need, you've got a solid guarantee that you will get it answered.

How's THAT for an offer you can't refuse?


I'm Adding In A Special Bonus...

There's one more area of a man's inner game that he must have taken care of or he will not succeed over the short - or the long term. And that area is:


Wouldn't it be great to have the ability to "coach" yourself? To be your own voice of support and guidance, rather than always having to rely on new programs every few months? Look, I spend a lot of time focusing on helping guys and making each program I offer the definitive guide.

But it's also easy to be lured into buying more and more programs just in case you missed anything.

Well, first of all, you won't miss anything here. This is my last program on self-confidence that I intend to create.

But even more important than this, you probably just need the ability to coach yourself.

There will be situations around the corner that you're not prepared for. That's how life is.

But wouldn't it be great if you could just change your own strategy - all by yourself - to tackle any unforseen challenges?


Wouldn't it be great to be your own Life-Coach?

Well, in this program, I decided to include my special program on self-coaching and creating your own life strategies. I was going to create a separate program for this, but I decided it made more sense to include it here for you.

You'll learn:


And ANOTHER Very Special Bonus...

There's another area of inner game that guys ask me about a lot, and I usually get it in the form of this question:

"How Can I Date Younger Women?"

Well, the game of dating younger women is actually a BIG Inner Game hurdle for a lot of guys. After all, if you're attracted to younger women (who isn't?) then you want to get rid of that feeling that you're a "creep," or some kind of "dirty old man."

Let me assure you, dating younger women is not only a good thing, it's easier than most guys realize. This is a huge inner game challenge for a lot of guys out there, and it's one that I completely cover in this 63 minute advanced Inner Game session.

You'll learn:



Here's What You Get:

Here is everything you get with the Ultimate Inner Game - Total Self Confidence & Social Success system:

10 Ultimate Inner Game Modules...

10 Ultimate Inner Game Modules...

Hours of material covering every aspect of your inner game with women, and your confidence in every part of your life.


AND: 2 Bonus Master Class Sessions...



12 Ultimate Inner Game Training Modules

VALUE: $249.97


BONUS 1: The Ultimate Inner Game Primer Video Class...

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This is my special inner game training video presentation on Advanced Inner Game that I gave to a closed-room audience here in San Francisco.

In this video, you'll learn:

  • What the "PUA learning curve" is, how it limits most guys who want to improve their game with women, and how to break free of this negative influence...

  • The big mistake 98% of all guys make with how they develop their inner confidence, and what your inner game depends on most of all...

  • Learn what part of your inner game is the most limiting - and the most empowering - and what you must do overcome this "weak link..."

  • What the 4 Inner Game Traps are, and how you avoid them when you're working on self-development and your dating skills...

  • Learn The Power of the "3 Questions" and how you can regain control of your conscious and subconscious mind when you learn them and use them effectively...

  • Find out what the difference is between "real" and fake confidence, and how to develop the right kind of inner game that works in the real world... (And not just bars and clubs!)

  • Discover the real difference between a "confident" man's thinking and the un-confident "nice guy," and how you make this key shift in your own thinking - permanently...

  • 5 Steps you can take RIGHT AWAY to radically increase your confidence and inner game strength that will get you to the next "Alpha" level...


VALUE: $59.97


BONUS 2: The Bryan Bayer Deep Inner Game Video Class...

bryan bayer ultimate inner game and self confidence Bryan Bayer, co-founder and CEO of AMP (Authentic Man Program™) and it's parent company, AuthenticSF™, is a certified course leader for the Arete Center for Excellence, and a Destination Method® Practitioner. With a background in meditation, NLP, integral theory, developmental psychology, chi-kung and man/woman dynamics, he has facilitated workshops and coached hundreds of people to success in the areas of communications, business, dating and relationships.

In this special training video, Brian and I go into deep inner game strategies and techniques. You will learn:

- The difference between setting your mood "in the moment," and creating the entire stage of your self-confidence...

- How we sabotage our conversations with women by our inner game - and how you're probably doing this in more than just your interactions with women...

- The hidden "Positive Addiction" you can create in yourself that will unlock the keys to your development and massive increases in inner game...

- The 3-Step "Cage Match" technique for overcoming any limiting obstacle you have in your neediness and insecurity...

- The 2 big mistakes guys make when using "NLP" to change their state or to influence their level of self-confidence...

- How "secondary gains" can destroy your inner game work you do on your own, and how you can counter this in your own development...

- How you kill your own ability to make "identity level" changes in your life - and how to avoid this problem when using any programs or other products you own...

- How to manage your "neediness' so that it doesn't explode and impact your entire life...

- How to manage your overwhelming emotions so that you stay in control...

- What real "needy" behavior is like, how to spot it - and stop it dead in your own life...

- How we cover up our insecurities and vulnerabilities in ways that prevents real connection and intimacy with others... and how your outer game becomes a trap and a "carcass" to avoid when you want to connect authentically with women...

- How to be "needy" without freaking people out and pushing away the people you want closer in your life...

- The first big mistake all guys make with their feelings of desire and need that shoots them in the foot and makes it ten times more difficult to get what it is they want...

- How to achieve the mindset where women do not push you into a fear reaction anymore - YOU are in control of your head, and your gut...

- And much more...


VALUE: $59.97


BONUS 3: The 253 Page Reference Ebook - Your Notebook...

Sometimes you need a written reference to look through and remind you of just the important points. Or maybe you want to know where that one part was that you missed and you want to find it again to review... Or you just listened to it in your car and you couldn't take any notes...

Well, I'm not just giving you the audio program - I actually sat down and transcribed all the key ideas and most important points for you into a 253 page reference e-book for all 12 of the main modules in the Ultimate Inner Game program.

And I'm even including a learning plan to map your precise path through the program in the best way possible...

VALUE: $79.97


BONUS 4: TEN Master Class Sessions...

You'll get the best inner game advice, techniques, and strategies from some of my most respected colleagues - and experts in the area of Ultimate Inner Game:

  • Sean Stephenson
  • Love Systems Experts
  • Dr. Paul
  • Dr. Alex Benzer
  • Scot McKay
  • Marni Kinrys
  • Grant Adams
  • FJ Shark

And more!

Here are the Bonus Experts From the Master Class
on Ultimate Inner Game.

You get these EXCLUSIVE and powerful training sessions ONLY with this offer...

When I first realized that I needed to create a complete and "ultimate" program on inner game, I knew there were about 3 people that I absolutely had to get to contribute. But when the word got out, about TWENTY different gurus wanted to add some of their insights in.

In the end, I had to eliminate all but the very best and make sure they had a spot in this program. And each of them gives you some excellent and focused coaching on developing your inner game to the next level.

This is not some kind of sneaky material that just hints at good content and then tells you to click some link, either. I made absolutely sure that the information they gave was balls-out FANTASTIC.

Here is what you'll get in the bonus Master Class section of the Ultimate Inner Game program...

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Dr. Alex Benzer is the author of 'The Tao of Dating: The Thinking Man's Guide to Success with Women.' He holds an A.B. from Harvard College, an MD from the University of California San Diego School of Medicine, and an M.Phil. from Cambridge University. He is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist and NLP Master Practitioner. Alex maintains a hypnotherapy practice in Los Angeles, California.

In the first segment, Alex shows you how to apply the concept of 'no-self' to your dating life (and beyond) to eliminate approach anxiety and transcend rejection.

The next part is adapted from his Courage Amplifier Mindtrack. We go over how courage is central to any success you want to have in life (since what you want is always outside of your comfort zone.

- The role of your ego - and how you manage it with "No Self" so that it doesn't control YOU...

- The Dating Pipeline - 7 essential steps of dating action that lead to the best results...

- How you limit your identity - the role of your "acquired tastes" in dating and attraction...

- How to eliminate your fear in approaching by going beyond confidence...

- How to get rid of the one thing that gets in the way of your connection with a woman...

- The "State to Trait" method of implementing change in your behavior...

- The nature of courage for men

- How your mind and nervous system works - and how your fear disables you unintentionally

- Clear your mind and cultivate awareness with a simple mental exercise that you can use in any situation to relax and stop your crazy "monkey" mind...

- A simple exercise to clear your mind and relax, giving your mind the ability to connect to your courage and confidence...

- Special Bonus: A Courage Amplifier mind soundtrack that will program your mind for calm and relaxation - increasing your confidence


Dr. Paul Dobransky inner game and confidence
Dr. Paul Dobransky has been one of the most sought after speakers for his theories and advice on men's inner game issues. He's been featured on David DeAngelo's "Interviews with Dating Gurus," has written books on the psychology of love, and has appeared on NBC, ABC, CBS, CNN, and FOX television.

In this segment of the Ultimate Inner Game Master Class, you will learn:

- The two vital parts of your mental "operating system..." and the 4 Critical Parts of Character you must focus on for rock-solid inner game...

- The need for "evolutionary character" in sexual attraction - what it is, and how you use it as a man... and the important elements of masculinity

- What men need to feel that they have achieved manhood, and how you're probably missing out on the practical benefits of true manhood...

- The skill of observing ego - how to use it, and why it is absolutely essential for you to grow and avoid social regrets in life...

- The scientific explanation of "cool" - and what you need to do to develop it...

- The difference between "taking risks" - and the big mistake that you take when you "play the numbers..."

- The vital difference that women are looking for in your "game" that pulls her interest immediately... The most powerful driver in a woman's attraction psychology...

- How to "neg" a woman in the right way that generates the right emotions of mystery and interest...

- When it's officially "game over" for you in your game with a woman...


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Marni Kinrys
is the owner and creator of The Wing Girl Method and the concept of Wing Girls. Her company is the only one of its kind that offers men a female perspective straight from the source, a woman. The Wing Girl Method is best known for their "Wing Girl" outings where they take out guys accompanied by 2 Wing Girls for an evening who validate him to other women, pick up women for him and give him direct, on site, instant feedback.

In this Master Class segment, you will learn:

- The mind of a woman - What women are thinking, and what she thinks about your inner game...

- Why women are "insane" - and how women predict what you're thinking and read your mind...

- What a woman's real plan is when she goes out to bars and clubs - what her mindset is, and how you should handle the approach from a woman's perspective...

- The decision points a woman reaches about whether she is interested in you, and how she reads your inner game...

- How women relate to a guy's inner game and read you - and what she does with her impression of you in her head...

- The "sexiest" and strongest traits that women are looking for in your game, and what she really thinks about your looks and your nice car...

- You know that she likes a sense of humor, but do you know why? And what she thinks it communicates about you...? And what she thinks about your shyness...

- How a woman reads character and sexual success about a man - and what she's looking for...

- What emotional social skills a woman wants you to have - and which emotional issues she's trying to avoid...

- The Wing Girl Method: Answering Guys Top Questions About Inner Game With Women

- Is it really possible to become a social stud? Can you REALLY change? What do women think about this? Find out...

- How do you keep going when you aren't seeing results with women? The Wing Girls tell you what they think...

- How to manage women's expectations when you feel like you don't "measure up..."

- How to stop psyching yourself out from approaching a woman...

- The one approach that women hate the most - and you must NEVER do, and how you can easily avoid it to start a good conversation...

- How can you avoid the "creepy guy from out of town" vibe - and be the life of any club you go into - even when you're alone...

- How to keep up a conversation after the approach, and what a woman looks for and wants to hear from you...

- What a guy can do to date younger women - and what women think about guys that date younger women - it's not what you think!


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Sean Stephenson
is one of the leading authorities on the deconstruction of self-sabotage - the ways we get in our own way. A psychotherapist and internationally known professional speaker, Sean has been sharing his findings with audiences since 1996.

You probably know Sean from his appearances in many other seminars and programs, and he lends his unique and authentic presence to this program.

In this bonus, Sean will show you:

- How to Control Your Inner State - without having to hypnotize yourself or "trick yourself..."

- The 3 ingredients to State Management - the tuning fork of your personality...

- How to handle people with congruency to project your confidence and powerful state to others...

- How to work your body language and manage your physiology to connect with your deeper confidence...


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Adam Gilad (AKA Grant Adams) is an Emmy Award Winning Executive Producer and Screenwriter, a master writer & communicator who has taught creative writing at Stanford and consulted for dozens of other Fortune 500 Companies to make their marketing communications powerful, visceral and effective.

But he is known to thousands of men as Grant Adams, featured on the ABC Show, "How To Get The Guy" -- and created Net2Bed/Net2Wed: How To Attract The Woman of Your Dreams For a Night, A LifeTime And Everything In Between. Adam is also the creator of erotic skills study programs including Erotic Mastery and Tantric 101, as well as the 60-Second Connect instruction program at Masters of Approach (which features me, Carlos, naturally ;).

In this personal audio, which Adam created especially for you in this program, he delves into what makes for key Strength Attractors when devising an online profile that touches women to the core.

Adam will show you:

- Sexual Polarity - what it is, and how you cultivate it for a true sense of masculine inner confidence...

- What "strength indicators" and "signifiers" are, and how you use them to develop your masculine identity...

- The missing ingredient from "natural game" that most guys are lacking...

- Online dating tips to communicate your inner game in your dating profile...

- The secret control "solidity" factor - and what this sub-communicates to women...

- A complete comparison and contrast of good and bad online profiles...

- Humor and comedy - how it's related to confidence and inner game, and what it is that women find attractive - and how to communicate to a woman... and one simple method to cultivate your sense of humor each day during your commute...

- The Strength Grid exercise - to bring your life into congruency - and the 8 strength areas... and what to do to hone your attractiveness in all the key areas...

- The 'Pet-the-dog' behavior that endears you to a woman...

- How a man looks "connected" between his inner game and outer game, and how to diagnose your self-awareness and understanding of your own "natural game" and attractiveness...

- Learn what One word change that will massively increase the power and strength of your profiles

- Uncover the shift in perception about your identity that will surprise and delight the women you meet, and become more naturally exciting than you ever thought imaginable...


"Fader" - a top bootcamp instructor for Love Systems in New York, has some great concepts and basic understanding of the inner game of approaching. I met him in Los Angeles when we spoke at the same seminar.

In this segment, "Fader," the instructor who consistently gets rave reviews helping guys with their inner game with women, shares some of his best information and most powerful observations.

In this special Master Class, you'll learn:

- Fader's personal Inner Game definition, and how you set yourself up for success or failure with women based on your inner game attitudes...

- Where you have to find your ultimate motivation in order to change and create stronger inner game...

- What the "Play to Lose" attitude is, and how guys sabotage their game with women with the wrong attitude...

- The "cling" mistake that men make with their inner game, and how to avoid the biggest mistake with your identity that can be made...

- How a confident man handles "rejection" by maintaining a strong internal reference...

- The difference between the mentality of the man that gets a "6" and the one that gets a "10"...

- The "Small Chunking" Strategy for realistically building your approaching skills...

- The "dorm room" strategy for changing your mentality with respect to women...

- Understanding the "social matrix" - how sub-communication works with men and women in groups...

- How guys mess it up with really beautiful women without even knowing it...

- The "CEO" example of how social status is built and destroyed in just seconds...

- The 3 areas you need to understand to learn and control social dynamics...

- How guys mess it up with women based on how hot she is, and how they handle their "phone game..."

- How your "inner confidence" goes up so that you can move from talking to average women to exceptional women...

- The "5 Loves/5 Hates" exercise to jack up your self-confidence - and how to feel positive about your negatives...


Scot McKay
Scot McKay
is out there coaching guys to get what they deserve from their dating and their relationships. Scot heard about this program and came up with some additional coaching for you on inner game.

In this Master Class session, you'll learn...

- Simple adjustments you can make to your voice that will reap massive benefits RIGHT NOW

- Have you ever lost a woman's interest without even knowing what happened? Rid yourself of that hollow, sinking feeling forever by pinpointing the hidden ways you could be submarining YOUR OWN dating life.

- Absolutely golden strategies for first date success... make her think about you constantly instead of wanting to forget you

- Are your conversation skills killing you? Why she'll never, ever tell you that you messed up... and how to make sure it never happens again

- Why especially smart and educated guys are particularly prone to scaring women away... and how to get your natural gifts to start working FOR you instead of AGAINST you

- How to kill "awkward moments" with women FOREVER



FJ Shark FJ Shark has been showing guys the magical power of the "jerk" for years. He's the author of the book "How to Be The Jerk Women Love," which influenced my inner game and attitude, and turned me around completely from a wussy "nice guy" to a man that women respect.

In our interview, you'll learn:

  • The 13 Sneakiest Tricks, Tests, and Mind Games women use - and how you keep falling for them!

  • Why getting phone numbers is the least important indicator of your success with women, and what you should be focusing on FIRST...

  • Why a woman uses the "raise the quota" strategy, and how you counter it so you aren't tricked into giving up your power and serving her...

  • What "boyfriend dues" are, and if you should even be paying them...

  • Learn how the "20 Questions" strategy works with women, and how you can avoid getting fooled by this trick...

  • What the "Acid Test" question is, and - more importantly - how you respond to a woman that asks it... If you don't, you'll destroy any chance of sleeping with her...

  • What the "stunt double" is, and how guys get fooled into falling in love based on this one big mistake...

  • And MUCH more...

Learn how the "Jerk's" inner game works, and why he's so attractive to women in this exclusive audio presentation...




BONUS 5: The Dating Younger Women Advanced Session Carlos Xuma with Dean Cortez...

This rare audio session is a whole training module I developed for Dean Cortez to explain how men can get past the inner and outer game obstacles related to dating younger women.

Let's face it, guys want to date young, attractive women, and there's nothing wrong with that!

You'll find out in this session:


VALUE: $39.97


BONUS 6 - 11: The Inner Game Interviews Series...

Carlos interviews some of the top names in dating advice and seduction skills for men, giving you a look at how they think, and what they do to build their confidence and self-esteem, and then how it applies to the world of dating women and you living the Alpha Lifestyle.

You'll get over 12 hours of concentrated advice and techniques from top gurus in the field.

BONUS 6: Brent Smith Interview

You may know Brent from being the guru that taught David DeAngelo how to meet women. In this special interview, Brent explains his ideas of Natural Inner Game, and the proper Alpha Man attitude that he uses every day to attract women. When you hear Brent's inner game attitude, you'll understand completely how to make the switch from needy guy to confident Alpha Man.

You'll learn why inner game work alone will kill your game with women, how to approach women from strong inner game, and how Brent handles the approach from a place of strong confidence.

VALUE: $39.97


BONUS 7: David Wygant Interview

David will tell you what you need to do to "flip the switch" in your head - to get to the level of competence that you want with women, and never go back to your old ways with women.

You'll learn about the reasons that guys slip into a "scarcity" mindset with women, and how to stop this from KILLING your game. You'll even learn why you get more successful when you DON'T get a phone number or the date... And why do we get caught up into this approval seeking cycle of destruction?

Get ready for some real inner game insight in this interview...

VALUE: $39.97


BONUS 8: Decker Cunov Interview - from A.M.P.

My good friend Decker from the Authentic Man program reveals some of the most startling inner game techniques and revelations I've ever talked about in this program. We discuss "quantum leaps" in awareness and growth in your game, and how to build up your confidence, as well as

VALUE: $39.97

BONUS 9: "Doc" Amir Georges Sabongui Interview

Doc is one of the most beloved of all the guys in the men's dating and social advice field. In this interview, Doc gives up his secrets to how he found himself alone and depressed at home and turned his life around to have nearly 100 people at his birthday party. He'll share his strategies for completely turning your social life around.

VALUE: $39.97

BONUS 10: Zan Perrion Interview

Zan is known as the king of "natural game" - the kind of guy who just goes in and uses his naturally devilish charm to win women over. The essence of what Zan teaches is to not use lines and scripted "routines" to attract women, and in this interview you will learn much of the essence of Zan's style.


VALUE: $39.97


BONUS 11: Sean Stephenson Interview

Sean Stephenson makes a second appearance on this program, mostly because of the high level of focus he puts on inner game and confidence. He's interviewed me on the topic of inner game, and I got my chance to talk to him about his perspective on this when we talked about



VALUE: $39.97


BONUS 12: Unlimited support and updates for the life of the program...

From time to time, I like to make sure all the parts of the program are in the right order, and all the necessary exercises are included. Any future versions and updates of the Ultimate Inner Game program will be sent to you - free of charge!

VALUE: $49.97


BONUS 13: Access to my exclusive members-only NEW Alpha Man Power Forum

There you'll be able to exchange techniques, tips, and advice with the other Alpha Men on topics ranging from building your confidence, to how to meet women, to health and fitness. I will even post answers to questions and conduct surveys and polls and help directly with your problems. This is one community that you absolutely must be a part of!

VALUE: $49.97


BONUS 14: 4 Total Advanced Coaching Sessions

An additional 440 Minutes of additional Dating and Lifestyle advice, covering all the ins and outs of dating and attracting women, and handling tricky social situations. From communication and conversation, to building confidence and self-esteem, this program covers EVERY area of developing your Alpha Lifestyle...

VALUE: $124.85


BONUS 15: Extra Master Class Modules...

I'll be sending out special advanced audio training modules from time to time on topics related to inner game, and you're going to get every one of them.

Over the next few months with the program, I'll also be sending you additional training audios that cover deep inner game problem solving, as well as some special surprise guests and bonus information.

VALUE: $79.97



"I was beginning to doubt I was ever going to be able to become more attractive on my own, the negative self-talk was getting so bad - AND because of the economy, not be able to afford live training for the forseeable future.

When I used Carlos' program, the reasons became clear why I was struggling with my inner self. You've now provided me with the tools and the explanations, and moreover, a way out of the Pandora's box of my negative thinking habits.

Specifically, I just feel greatly relieved. Now I can focus on just being happy and living in the moment - I still have work to do, however it is getting much easier. Falling bacvk on old thinking patterns now becomes a realization that I'm choosing to think and feel this way.

I'd tell guys to take a look at this program if they truly want their inner game issues handled.

Thank you, Carlos! Now I have the motivation to move towards my goals..."

- Chris Hascomb, Louisiana

I'm sure you're wondering by now how much this program is, and if you can afford it. Well, the good news is that EVERY guy out there can afford it. I've made this a completely digital download for you, saving you a lot of money on the 35 or so CDs and DVDs that I'd have to create to hold all this stuff.

Instead, you can just download it right now and begin working on your inner game right away.

The total value of this program is $1214.40...

But as part of my initial launch of this program, I'm going to discount the list price of Ultimate Inner Game over $800, and I'll even give you...

My Crazy 365 Day "I'll Buy it Back!" Guarantee

I'm never satisfied unless you are more than satisfied.

So here's my simple "No Small Print" guarantee. Try the "Ultimate Inner Game" program today and put it to the test. Use every strategy and technique as many times as you'd like for 12 full months.

That's right. A whole freakin' year.

Take your time to use the program completely.

You be the judge. If this program doesn't deliver everything I've promised, or if you're unhappy with it for any reason, just return it and I'll immediately buy it back from you.

My fulfillment company almost refused to work with me on this, and I had to guarantee it with my own money so that we could launch this program.

You see, I have no problem making this iron-clad guarantee because I've personally used and benefitted from these strategies and techniques, so I know they work. I've been using them for the last 15 years, and these are the most valuable techniques with respect to inner game that you can find. Anywhere!


Fair enough?

Only 500 Copies Will Be Sold At The Early Bird Price

When I finished this version of the Ultimate Inner Game program, I was bound and determined to set the price to $397.00. (It's a ton of work...) But so many people have already read about it, and have seen the special price that I didn't feel right raising it without warning.

So, I decided to release the first 500 copies for...

Only $167...
(or 3 payments of 55.66)

I'm keeping the price this low for the people who have already read the details. As soon as these 500 copies sell, this edition will go up by at least $50 to $100 - OR I will probably have to remove the free updates and many of the bonuses.

I'm literally losing money every day I give away the bonus package for free, so if you return to this page tomorrow and find that it's pulled from the site, don't call or email me requesting it for free.

You've been warned, so please no "cry babies" if you procrastinate.


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If you don't take action and get started now, here's what's going to happen - You will:

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You know, my father used to tell me that the definition of insanity is doing the same things over and over and expecting different results. Isn't that true?

Are you doing the same things over and over? Well, you're very likely going to keep getting the same results.


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Ultimate Inner Game Success Stories

"I had purchased Ultimate Inner Game a while ago. And ever since I have been trying to think of ways to say thank you. I am halfway through the program now but I still can't find anything that would expres the amount of gratitude I have for you putting that amazing program together...

I can't do anything at this moment yet but give you the biggest compliment that I can think of: You have changed my life man. For the better. And for that you have my life long respect and gratitude.

I really think your amazing inspiration. And this in a time where the world is flooded with so called guru's that promiss mountains but leave you hanging in the middle (that's if your lucky). Only with you have I got the feeling that I am truly working in a team, even though I have never met you. Thank you for the lessons, now I will do the work."

- G.B.

"Are you ready for a success story?!?!... I just have to say THANK YOU dude, you are the greatest, I have been using your Inner Alpha Game audio tapes and they have elevated my game beyond imaginable levels.

I am at the point where I have been talking to and dating a MIN. of 3 girls per week for the last 2 months. I am kinda worried about going any higher because I work and am a student also its been hard to make the time.

I now have girls giving me their phone numbers and they are making the first move to hang out, just today two of the grls I have been talking to all week both asked when we can hang out sometime.

I can not thank you enough bro keep up the good work!! I hope this inspires all other men out there that you can do anything you set your mind to..."

- Andy F.

"[Before I found Ultimate Inner Game] ...I was pessimistic, easily angry, nervous and awkward around people and ESPECIALLY attractive women, doubting myself, low self-esteem you name it

[The exercises] helped me figure myself out more and some of the things you said were eye openers and I was like If only I knew this earlier...

I am much better in staying positive with that positive self talk, much more calm, and I rarely react to whatever happens around me...

I'd tell guys to check this program out if you want to your life the way you want it to be and you deserve...

Carlos is also genuine not like those who advertise just to sell their products but I feel like I have my money's worth. You left no stones unturned. Thanks now I have a guide on to becoming an alpha man!"

- A. G. - Milford, CT

"My situation before I found [Ultimate Inner Game] program was I had spent many dollars on counseling trying to undo the garbage from the past without much success. I have committed at least 1/2 hour a day to this course and already I am beginning to feel the difference...

When I used Carlos' program I find that my inner strength is returning to me as well as the sense of humor and hopefulness of a brite and wonderful future.

Specifically, I feel much stronger and happier than ever before! The impossible things as of late, no longer seem impossible but very probable! I now feel as though I am beginning to possess my present on the way to possessing my future and my Destiny! If I had had this 30 years ago, there is no telling where I would be today!

I am telling everyone I know who has had similar events in their lives about the positive changes that I am experiencing now, and many around me are noticing the difference too!

...If I had had this 30 years ago, I would have saved so much money on counseling just trying to regain my "peace" in life and how much better my life would be today because of all of the material that I am applying. I am becoming another person...the person I was many years ago who was full of life!"

- Anthony F. - Georgia

"I gotta tell you man, this is some really cutting edge stuff you got here! I watched the 2 preview videos... and it took me 2 watches to really GET IT... but boy, was that an eye opener! First time I watched it, it got me thinking.

Then the second time about a week later, it really clicked, and I was literally blown away by the whole concept of inner game not really existing, 'me' as a fluid concept, and the 'that was the old me' mental exercise... it's never been this clear before!

I know you talked about these concepts a lot here and there, but you really put it together extremely well in this one video, and it was never as clear before! ...I have no doubt this is one of the best things you've ever released (and that's saying a lot!). thanks for all the awesome work you do man! :)"

- Roman R.

"My situation before I found this product was I was actually looking for Inner Game training... I prefer you because strike me as being genuine and a little bit more moral than the others.

Funny thing, I haven't yet changed much about myself externally, but I find that people are starting conversations with me more. I have barely started listening to the audio disks.

Specifically, I am becoming more aware of negativity and limiting beliefs. When they show up, I have the option of ignoring them and reframing them in a positive light.

I'd tell guys to work on your inner game. It is at least as important as outer game and the two go together."

- Gary S., Sausalito

"My situation before I found this product was that I was a shy, conservative guy who didn't have a good amount of friends and I often had anxiety in social situations or before approaching women.

When I used Carlos's program I began to learn a lot about my own inner game and how it works

Specifically, I understood the foundations of my own inner game and how to begin to change. Things that help me a lot were the 21 day success habits, abundance/scarcity thinking, and belief systems...

I'd tell guys to defintly buy this program, its worth it. Awesome job man! I can't wait to check out some of your other programs."

- Sam C. - Pittsburgh, PA

"What I like about you and your programs so much is that I never feel duped from your products. I always feel I get my money's worth ten fold. I truly feel that you are one of the few advisors that care a great deal about trying to help guys improve the quality of their lives. I thank you for that..."

- Jim

"I've read your materials and I have to admit, that you´re wise man. WISE MAN... I've heard/and give many dating advice, but they were covering just the part of the big picture...."

- Tom S.

"I have to say your programs are the best and I researched the different sites... No one has sh*t on you dude this is exactly what we need I am going to get all your programs and study my assssss off."

- Henry R.

"AWESOME!! Carlos Xuma is right on! ... This guy is more than a dating guru! He almost can be your psychologist. He's basically a life coach!"

- Russ

"I own all your programs, DVD's, Ebooks, audio coaching etc.... They are FANTASTIC! They have also made an improvement in my life... I must admit I love all your programs, not only because they have enhance my life, but the psychology behind all your analysis...

I don’t look as you as a therapist, however I find you incredibly gifted with life experiences... "

- J.

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- Khawar J.

"I found more and more women interested in me without having to try ... my girlfriend got more and more interested in me because of my alpha attitude..."

- Patrick W. - U.K.

"My situation before I found this product was... mired in pessimism and negative thought about my present situation. I had alot of information and technique, but I could never get it to work effectively...

When I used Carlos' program, I saw that negative thinking patterns are self validating and you really have to choose to be happy. Carlos shows effective ways to turn the tide on the negative thinking patterns that were turning my worst fears into reality.

I'd tell guys to seriously give this program a look. All the dating and seduction technique in the world isn't going to help you if you don't have your inner game handled..."

- C.H. - LA