Seduction has gotten a bad name, don't you think?
The dictionary definition is "have one's way with,
take advantage of..."
I think that a lot of guys think that learning how to seduce women is a bad thing because it somehow manipulates
women. I used to believe this, too. Then I realized that
we are all looking for a magician in our life.
Think about it: Everybody loves to see a really good
magician from time to time. They show us a ball in one
hand, and then *poof* it's in the other hand. Or they
somehow manage to pull our card out of a whole deck.
Or they make a person seem to levitate.
We KNOW it's a trick, that they're not really able to
use magical powers. But we WANT to go along with the
illusion long enough to be entertained - and to escape.
Women are no different! They want men to give them that
sense of magical escape, just long enough that they can
let their emotions free.
What I want to propose to you is that you learn how
to seduce women using the ethical tools of seduction
to help women experience the magic of love and connection
with you. Long enough that you can then create something
real and genuine for her as well.
I want to tell you about 3 techniques for how to seduce
women - ethically.
How to Seduce Women - Step 1: Create Something Unusual
And Different
A lot of guys look at a beautiful woman and assume that
she's got a really interesting and exciting life going
on. After all, she's attractive, right?
Nothing could be further from the truth.
Women are stuck in the same boring ruts as a lot of
guys are. Deep down inside, we're all bored and wishing
someone would just do something DIFFERENT for once. That's
why a breaking news story about some guy who robs a bank,
or parachutes into a footbal stadium grabs our attention.
We all want that magical moment of distraction from
the everyday routine.
And women get a lot of routine from guys.
"Hey, can I buy you a drink?"
That's a routine approach that makes them yawn. They
want a guy that can grab their attention.
So here's what you do to create something unusual: Go
to a bookstore and buy a deck of fortune telling cards
- like a Tarot deck, or . (You can also get these online
- google it - or even use a regular deck of cards.) You're
not going to do a magic trick, but just ask her to pick
one card and you'll tell her something about her future.
I've got a deck of cards called the "Goddess
Cards." Each
one shows a different goddess, and I ask women to draw
a card to find out which one they are.
You'll instantly create an unusual moment for her.
How to Seduce Women Step 2: Give Her Mystery
One thing that guys are very guilty of is telling a
woman WAY too much. They tell her everything and leave
nothing to the imagination.
From now on, you need to leave her with unanswered questions
in her head. Think about the effect this has on you and
you'll know why it's so important to use this when you're
working on how to seduce women.
Have you ever been watching a movie, and right at a
high point in the action, when the hero is about to fall
off the building, they cut over to some other guy in
an office somewhere, and he's in the middle of pulling
secret files on the existence of aliens. And just when
he's about to discover the truth... they take you to
some exotic city in the far east where a soldier is in
the middle of a gunfight with the enemy.
They jack up the tension by leaving you hanging.
The way you do this with a woman is to simply start
telling her a story, and then change the subject at an
interesting part. Then you start another story that's
just as interesting as the other one. Now she's got an
unfinished plot thread in her head that she will want
to finish. She'll probably ask - or even beg - you to
finish the other story.
How to Seduce Women Step 3: Take The Lead
Whether we all want to admit it or not, we want someone
to come along and tell us what to do. We hate that feeling
of not knowing if what we're doing is right, or if we're
even on the right path.
This is what I figured out early when I was trying to
understand how to seduce women. Women love to have men
take the lead and tell them what to do.
Not in a control-freak kind of way, but in a very compassionate
manner. It's like he's saying: "Hey, I know what
will make you happy, and I know that you want to do this,
but you might feel a little guilty. So I'm going to make
it easy for you by deciding for you. Take my hand and
let's go..."
In magic, the moment where the trick is shown to the
audience and everyone gasps and applauds is called the "reveal."
This works in all areas you can think of how to seduce
women. From telling her to give you her phone number,
to leading her to the restuarant you chose on the date,
to leading her to the bedroom. She wants someone to take
the initiative and lead her with confidence to the "reveal." Where
she gets to gasp in awe that you were able to create
a magical moment in her life that she will want to repeat
with you again and again.
And if you want to get the complete roadmap of how to
go from home alone to how to meet and attract the sexy
girlfriend of your dreams, then you need to learn how
to approach and flirt with women with my home study program.
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Date
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It's up to you...
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Talk soon...
Wishing you confidence
and success with women - With HONOR and
integrity.
Carlos Xuma
PS: You might
be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information
I'm sharing. But I want more than this for you.
