How To Be A
Pickup Artist - Without Being A Creepy Dude...
There's been a lot of publicity about "pickup artists" and
how to be a pickup artist over the last few years. Ever
since Neil Strauss' book The Game hit the best seller
lists, guys everywhere want to know how to be a pickup
artist.
Well, I'm going to explain the three steps you can take
to be a pickup artist. And not only attract women like
a pickup artist - but beat him at his own game.
Why would you want to do more than just be a pickup
artist?
Consider this: What you learn from a pickup artist is
how to IMITATE the behaviors of a guy who knows how to
attract women. What you will discover with this method
is how to BE the man who attracts women - with no acting
or sneaky tricks or manipulation. So why would you settle
for being an actor when you can be the REAL deal?
How to be a pickup artist - Strategy #1: Avoid the "Identity" of
the pickup artist...
What I mean by this is that there is nothing wrong with
learning to improve your skills with women. In fact,
it's probably one of the noblest things a man can do.
This creates a "win-win" situation where you
get to date the attractive women you meet, and she gets
a man who understands what women want in a man - and
he gives it to her.
But there is a trap that some guys fall into of buying
all the cool pickup artists clothes, and using all the
same pickup artist openers that women have all heard
by now. They imagine the pickup artist like some kind
of superhero with super powers that they can become at
will.
I have to tell you right now that I can spot these guys
a mile away, and so can women. Unfortunately, most guys
want this success with women so desperately that they
jump head-first right into the role of the pickup artist.
They end up looking like they're trying too hard - and
that is actually one of the big mistakes.
The most effective pickup artist is the one that isn't
making this a whole costume party and identity makeover.
He knows that in order to really attract hot women, you
have to fly UNDER her radar by just being yourself -
but with a pickup artist sensibility that understands
how the game is played - and won.
How to be a pickup artist - Strategy #2: Being a true
pickup artist means you have no switch...
This technique is related to the last one. When guys
try to be this ultimate pickup artist, they start to
imagine that this skill of attracting women is something
they can turn off and on at will. In fact, if you try
to do this, you will cause even more damage to your confidence
over the long run.
Here's what happens...
If you imagine that you have this "other" identity
of a pickup artist that you "turn on" when
you need it, this only reinforces to your subconscious
mind that you are usually NOT this guy. In other words,
you are programming yourself to believe that you are
not naturally attractive to women, and for you to do
this, you have to change into your pickup artist alter-ego.
Because what happens most of the time is that you simply
don't want to use the canned material and have to fight
your own fear and reluctance to approach and meet women.
The secret to being a true pickup artist is not trying
to switch this off and on at will. The true pickup artist
doesn't see himself as an "approacher" only
when he gets himself into the role. He's a pickup artist
24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year.
When you make the pickup artist become YOU (instead
of the other way around) - you realize that you can be
yourself without any manipulative games AND be attractive
to women. And when you understand how this works, you'll
also feel more comfortable with yourself. Because if
there's anything that turns off a woman more it's a guy
that's trying to NOT be himself.
She will smell your
deception.
How to be a pickup artist - Strategy #3: Avoid the pickup
artist "get" mentality...
If there's one element that will get you more success
with women than you know what to do with, it's getting
tricked into thinking that the pickup artist game is
a "get" game. As in, how to GET more from women.
After all, aren't they the ones that are trying to keep
you from GETTING what you want?
GETTING a phone number...
GETTING a kiss...
GETTING a date...
GETTING intimate with her...
It all seems like a big game of trying to sneak and
trick your way into getting your goals. But the reality
is that dating hot women and being an honorable pickup
artist is all about the GIVE. No, I'm not talking about
the giving of favors in exchange for hers, like buying
drinks and dinner in the hopes that she will give you
some.
What I'm talking about is GIVING her a fun time...
GIVING her a moment of escape from her boring life...
GIVING her an intelligent and masculine man - not just
a pickup artist - that can turn her inner furnace up
to the boiling point.
The next time you're in a conversation with a woman
and you're wondering how to talk to women so they will
respond to you, just forget about what you think you're
there to GET from her. Instead, just give her a moment
where she can feel good about herself, and you'll find
that this is 90% of the pickup artist game. (And you
don't even have to BE a pickup artist to win it!)
Give her a sincere compliment... And also give her a
little tease to let her know you aren't intimidated and
emasculated by women.
And you'll succeed in becoming the kind of pickup artist
that most women never meet - a genuine and powerful Alpha
Man.
Look, the other gurus out there will teach you the superficial
parts of how to be a pickup artist. They can only teach
you the empty techniques of how to attract women. They
will give you pickup lines to use and pickup artist routines
you can memorize - but it will always be empty and awkward
for you to use. You'll always feel like you're "not
being yourself" around women, and it will feel unnatural.
Instead of being a fake pickup artist, you can be the
kind of man that pickup artists only wish they could
be - the authentic man that women desire most of all.
And you'll never have to settle for the label of a pickup
artist when you seduce more than attractive women - you
will get the respect - and maybe just a little envy -
from your buddies and peers.
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Talk soon...
Wishing you confidence
and success with women - With HONOR and
integrity.
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- like approaching a woman, or asking her out.
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