Once you get the hang of how to meet women and attract women, the next step is how do you KEEP her.

Of all the dating tips for guys I discuss, this one is the one most guys are most embarrassed to ask - but EVERY guy wants to know. Maybe it's because guys aren't supposed to want relationships, or they're afraid their membership card to the Man Club will be revoked.

The truth is that men want to be able to date many women, but ultimately want the power to snag a quality woman when she comes into his life.

So here are my 4 secret dating tips for guys on how to get that relationship with the beautiful, sexy woman you desire.

Dating Tips for Guys: Secret 1 for relationships: Don't Panic.

Yes, just like that motto from the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, you want to be sure to keep your cool - no matter what.

When a woman starts to push your buttons, you'll be tempted to let loose those dogs of war, but you must keep your emotional calm. The primary reason for this is that women judge your confidence level by your ability to stay in control of your emotions.

The second you let your temper flare with her, or if she sees that she can push buttons and play you like a puppet, you're doomed. She will lose attraction for you, and she'll also be getting reinforcement to do it again.

Occasional bouts of anger are a fact of life. But if you let them burn out of control, you might take the whole forest with you.

Dating Tips for Guys: Secret 2 for relationships: Choose Your Battles

So even though you must keep your cool, as I discussed in the first dating tips for guys secret, you also need to be able to put your foot down and be firm when necessary. The key is to choose your battles instead of being drawn into every conflict.

Ultimately, men want smooth waters. We don't like a lot of turbulence and chop in life's ocean.

Women, on the other hand, enjoy the occasional conflict or emotional discussion. It's cathartic for them.

So as an important dating tips for guys secret, you have to remember that you can't be drawn into constant conflicts over things. You have to know when to give in and when to stand your ground. This balancing act is essential to your long-term sanity.

In fact, if you find that you're being pulled into battles regularly, you should see if there may be a compatibility issue that you need to address.

Dating Tips for Guys: Secret 3 for relationships: Keep doing what you did to get her.

It's amazing how quickly this changes once a relationship sets in, but most guys simply stop doing all the things they did to attract her in the first place.

Obviously you can't keep up the same level of intensity and romanticism, but you can't make sure to keep things burning. In fact, it's a lot like a campfire: once you've gone through all that work to get it started, you just have to stoke it occasionally and throw a little wood on from time to time.

Oh, and don't forget that you need to keep yourself in shape and sexy, not only for her, but for your own self-esteem. I meet a lot of guys who become over-dependent on the relationship, and if something happens, they become tragically lost.

Dating Tips for Guys: Secret 4 for relationships: Be The Man.

This one is the big daddy of all these dating tips for guys. It's the core essence of what I call being the "Alpha Man."

The most attractive thing about men for women is that we are *masculine* - which means we're guys. No matter how much women complain about us (and they do quite a bit of it), they really are attracted to all the things they ridicule and roll their eyes at.

So it's up to you to maintain the essential qualities of masculinity that keep her attracted to you. Over the long term, it's the only way you will be happy, and it's also the only way to keep HER happy.

Polarity, which means having distinctly separate behaviors, is necessary for there to be a charge of attraction - just like in a battery. Without that strong charge of masculinity, there is no zap of electricity between you and her.

So of all the dating tips for guys that you learn, this is the most essential for relationships and keeping the woman you find. Make sure you are The Man, and she will feel safe enough to let down her defenses to let you in.

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Talk soon...

Wishing you confidence and success with women - With HONOR and integrity.


Carlos Xuma

PS: You might be reading this right now, just happy to be entertained with the information I'm sharing. But I want more than this for you.