One of the key areas of dating tips for guys that is
very important is to break through the “Touch Barrier” with
women.
The “Touch Barrier” is simply the initial
physical contact you have with a woman. Unfortunately,
it’s something that most guys delay for far too
long. The longer you wait to break the touch barrier,
the less likely you are to get attraction started with
a woman.
In fact, most guys end up going into the “Friends
Zone” with women simply because they never touched
her when they first met. It really is a critical success
factor in any approach, and it cannot be overlooked.
Human beings respond to touch in very consistent ways,
and women especially. Hormones are released when people
touch each other - and the one hormone that matters the
most is Oxytocin.
Oxytocin is often called the “hug drug” because
it’s stimulated by physical touch with another
person. (Even pets, too, which is why they have those
programs where they bring in pets to retirement homes
as a form of therapy.) Oxytocin evokes feelings of contentment,
reductions in anxiety, and feelings of calmness and security
around a mate. Or even a potential mate.
So it’s of the utmost importance that you get
to physical touch within the first 2 minutes of meeting
a woman. The easiest way is to touch her WHEN
YOU APPROACH and open the conversation. It’s a good way to get
her attention, and it immediately sets the right tone
for the interaction. You want her to know - instinctively
- that you are a confident MAN, and this is not a “neutral” conversation.
It has sexual tension and charge to it.
Another way to touch is to joke with her about something
like this: “You like Syrah wine? Great taste! High
five...” And then give her a quick high five.
By the way - the worst thing to do is start out “friends
first.” Any woman that tells you that she needs
to be friends before lovers and this the way she wants
to start a sexual relationship is unintentionally misleading
you. What she’s really saying is that she wants
to be able to TRUST you first.
Big difference.
Here are some simple dating tips for guys about breaking the Touch Barrier with a woman:
Dating Tips for Guys: Touch Tactic 1) Don’t make
the touch too much.
Touch her on the shoulder or arm. Maybe on her back
when you’re passing her in a crowded environment.
You don’t want her to feel like she’s being
groped, so keep it very light. Also, steer clear of any
parts of her body that would be sensitive to her, like
her neck or hips. The safe zone is her arms and center
of her back.
Dating Tips for Guys: Touch Tactic 2) Don’t draw
attention to your touch.
You never want to look at your hand or where you’re
touching her, or make too big of a deal of the touch.
Just make sure you follow up with something to say to
her so she can be distracted by what you’re saying
to her.
If you don’t follow up the touch immediately with
something to say, it just seems odd - and a little creepy.
Dating Tips for Guys: Touch Tactic 3) Don’t make
your touch too long.
Again, this goes with the first dating tips for guys
tactic number one. You want to be very brief and only
touch her for a second or two at most. If you leave your
hand on her for too long, she’ll be uncomfortable
and want to pull away. And if you do that in the initial
approach, you’re going to be in a really bad situation.
Touch can also be used in the first few minutes to emphasize
a point or establish a connection when both of you laugh.
This is particularly effective in social environments.
So just remember that women need to be touched quickly
and confidently when you first meet them. This triggers
instinctual responses in her that tell her that you are
a sexual man, and that she should forget about the “friends
zone” with you.
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integrity.
Carlos Xuma
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