Many guys have a natural fear that they are somehow "dirty
old men" for wanting to date younger women.
This is one of those myths that all men need to completely
obliterate immediately, because the fact is that
women love older men. Age is not the issue, in most
cases.
It's a case of most guys being intimidated by cute
women instead of demonstrating their natural Alpha
Attitude.
Right now I'm going to bust 5 secret myths for
dating younger women that will not only eliminate this fear
for you, but also show you how to get out there and
use this information to your advantage.
Dating Younger Women - Myth 1: "If you are
attracted to younger women, you're some kind of perv
or weirdo."
This is one of those myths that was probably created
by a bad romantic comedy, or someone with an axe
to grind. The reality is that men evolved over time
to feel attracted to women that had the best potential
to bear us children. The appearance of youth in a
woman is one of the most highly sought after qualities.
(If you need any proof, just witness the billions
and billions of dollars spent each year
on plastic surgery and cosmetics.)
Unfortunately, when she's past her late thirties,
a woman is much less likely to bear children - and
avoid the health risks associated with age.
So you're only a natural, red-blooded male when
you feel attracted to women who give off that glow
of youth.
And don't ever let anyone use shame to
manipulate you into thinking otherwise.
Dating Younger Women - Myth 2: "Women don't
find older men attractive..."
Whoops... sorry, another false belief here.
Women actually find older men more attractive than
younger men for the simple reason that women tend
to mature faster than men. Later on, guys do catch
up in emotional maturity.
But when she's in some
of her most fertile years for having children, a
woman is going to look to an older man to be more
established, more secure, more experienced, and more
confident in his life. These are very desirable
traits for her to have in a father of her children.
Of course, it goes without saying that no matter
how old you are, you should do your best to stay
fit and youthful in your attitude. No woman wants
to date a guy that is stubborn, grumpy, out-of-shape,
and already has his room picked out at the retirement
home.
Whatever the number is on your driver's license,
you don't have to act it.
Dating Younger Women - Myth 3: "Women secretly
hate men they see dating younger women..."
Sometimes this one can be true, but it's not the
man she's mad at - it's the younger women. It's not
even because he's older and she's younger, either.
It's because she's secretly angry that this younger
woman has the guy SHE wants. Or she's finding that
there's more competition.
Men don't have the same biological alarm
clock ticking
in the back of their heads that women do, so there's
a heightened sense of competition among women for
the scarce male resources out there. This should
actually be comforting to you, knowing that women
have more urgency than you do to find a mate.
Good men are scarce these days, so you are even
more in demand.
Dating Younger Women - Myth 4: "She needs a
younger guy to match her energy level in the bedroom..."
This one is actually WAY off the target. The fact
is that guys often focus on frequency instead of
quality when it comes to pleasing women, which is
not what women want at all. What every woman (at
every age) is looking for is a man who can run the
marathon, not the 100 yard dash.
She's also looking for some experience and patience
in the bedroom, which is what older men have that "jack
rabbit" younger guys do not.
Dating Younger Women - Myth 5: "Younger women
who date older guys are just gold diggers..."
Again, this myth sounds nice to someone who's trying
to justify why they don't have the woman of their
dreams, but it is rarely true in reality.
Younger women are looking for security and resources,
but they also know that in today's modern culture,
they can also make their own money and do just fine.
This means that her decisions are also weighted by
her intelligence just as much as her socialization
and natural female needs.
Of course, if you're throwing cash around and putting
on a display of wealth thinking that this will get
you the attraction and desire from women, you'd be
guilty of creating the situation. So keep
your wallet in your pocket, and understand that women do NOT need you to be rich.
She needs you to simply display the priveleges of
your experience - your confidence, your patience,
and your Alpha Male attitude.
And if you want to get the complete roadmap of how to
go from home alone to how to meet and attract the sexy
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Talk soon...
Wishing you confidence
and success with women - With HONOR and
integrity.
Carlos Xuma
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