If only it was as easy to get a woman as it is to just
go get a new car. Shop for the features you want, get
some financing, haggle a bit over the price, and then
take that sleek, curvacious model home.
Well, it may not be quite that easy, but you can definitely
use some strategies and tactics to discover how to get
a woman in your life. Attraction is not a choice, and
when you learn how to use the laws of attraction to your
advantage, you'll have everything you need to know for
how to get a woman.
I'm going to show you three secret techniques for how
to get a woman to want you, and how you can use them
to become the prize that women will give anything to
possess.
How to get a woman - Technique 1: Understand how women
work.
This is actually much easier than it sounds. I'll give
you a few basic principles to start you off.
First of all, women are conditioned to nurture connections.
It's the most important part of her life. All that time
she spends on the phone?
Yes, that's to maintain and
cultivate a connection. So use that understanding to
build your own skills of rapport to establish a strong
and enduring bridge between you and her. (The best way
to do this is to use shared emotional experiences.)
The next thing you should know is that a woman
will desire you more if she feels like you can easily
do without her. That means that she isn't looking for a man who
is eager to become too reliant on her too quickly - or
a man that is so insecure that he wants a woman to "complete
him."
She has to feel that you are independent and
separate person from her so that she knows you're strong
enough to protect her later on.
It's not hard to learn how to get a woman to want you
when you really understand those two principles.
How to get a woman - Technique 2: Everything has emotional
content.
One of the toughest parts of attraction for men to understand
is that everything in life has emotional content. When
men only talk about the facts and "action," they
miss out on most of the opportunity to connect with women.
And you want to know how to get a woman to talk about
her feelings.
So to become a true Casanova of the best kind, you have
to really learn how to focus in on the emotional content
of what she says. She will give you clues to her emotional
focus, or you can easily discover it for yourself with
this one conversation trick - ask her this one question: "What
did you think about that?"
As in, she's talking about how one of her friends has
been avoiding her, so you ask "What did you think
about that?"
Now, of course, we men would proceed to dissect the
situation into what we "logically" deduce,
but a woman will hear "What did you think about
that?" and immediately tell you how she FEELS about
it. And this is what we want to hear from her. Just hang
back and listen, and she'll instantly be more attracted
to you without being sure why.
Once you get the knack of asking that question of women,
you're going to find her leaning in closer, smiling more,
and becoming more interested in you with each minute
that passes.
How to get a woman - Technique 3: It's all in the space
between the notes.
This may sound contrary to what you think, but for how
to get a woman, at least half the attraction you want
to build is done when you're not there. There is a rhythm
of being there with her, getting her involved and interested
in you, and - as the saying goes - the absence that will
make her heart grow fonder.
Most attraction is built in this rhythm.
Always be sure to leave deliberate space in your time
you spend with a woman so that she can comfortably experience
your absence. As a woman once said, "It's the space
we need so that we know you won't run us over."
You can simply walk off for a bit while shopping with
her, or wait a day before you call her back again. There
are numerous ways to insert these spaces in your rhythm,
so be sure to use them. It requires self-control, but
that's what she expects from you anyway.
How to get a woman is as simple as employing these three
basic techniques in all your interactions with women.
And if you want respect and attraction
from any woman in your life, you need
to know the stealth strategies that trigger a
woman's primitive desires. Because when you have
confidence with women, you can say anything to
her and she will feel attracted to you, respond
to you - and respect you.
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Talk soon...
Wishing
you confidence and success with women - With HONOR and
integrity.
Carlos Xuma
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